Hello everyone. This question may sound terrible but it is doing my head in.. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and in the last month or so he keeps asking me is my penis small??? To be honest I dont care about his penis he is amazing!! I know he is kind of small probably around 4.5 maybe 4.75 inches but when he asks if it is small I say "dont be silly" and he gets annoyed!! so shall I be honest with him??? Not easy! has anyone else had same experience??
2006-10-06 23:44:17 · 30 answers · asked by sexi_dannigirl 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I should say! I dont think it is too small!! I have had bigger and this is probably the smallest but the best sex I have had!! I sound like a size queen but I really dont mind I just dont want to upset a great guy! Even though he keeps asking me.. thanks guys
2006-10-07 00:07:18 · update #1
Show him this question and let him see for himself.
I often say exactly the same thing because size is only one factor and if the brain is not there behind it, forget it
2006-10-07 00:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
DO THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tell him you slept with a guy who had a penis the size of a crayon. (I am not joking) Tell him that when he stuck it in you, you couldn't feel it.
Why tell him this? - - - Cause then he won't think he is the smallest you have ever had. He can feel smug that there is someone out there smaller than him. And you can appreciate him for what he is. You can also say you have had a BIG guy (say 7 1/2 inches), and it hurt like CrAzY. And there is NO way you could ever go back to that.
Then you can say that he is a perfect fit for your cervix. His penis rubs on your g-spot cause it is the perfect size and fit for you. And no man has ever done that before.
This way you turn his size into a positive.
If he asks if it is small again, you might want to ask him what he thinks. If he says it's small. Say that you love him, and have found YOUR perfect penis. So if he doesn't love it, you can love it for both of you. If he is young he might still be worrying about this till he is in his 30's.
2006-10-07 03:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by gideon9595 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my tricky one, I must admit I have asked a girl this but in a jokey way and they have answerd me back in a jokey way and then I was gutted! So I guess you should answer him how you feel about him rather than how many inches he is packing down there! Dont forget he may never have been confortable enough with a girl until you to be able to ask this type of very difficult question! Even if it upsets you it is a bit of a compliment as he must really be into you if he is worried what you think! sorry to ramble on.. Good luck and enjoy the good sex and good guy.
2006-10-07 00:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by Steveie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although his reaction(s) would suggest he himself cannot seem to be mature about such matters, I still think you should be honest with him, i.e. tell him what he wants to know and add the fact he's the best you've had so far, prooving the point that size does not always matter; it is HOW you use it that counts.
But judging by the reaction(s) he is having to your answer, it seems he may not be mature enough to understand the nature of your being truthful.
I always believe the thruth above all else, however sometimes when people cannot properly assimilate information, they tend to harshly and wrongfully judge such information. In your case, he may actually end up being offended by the truth, while he should be happy about it.
Good luck!
2006-10-10 07:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats hard, because for guys, penis size is a big deal unfortunately. if youre going to be honest with him, make sure that you put everything you like about him first. (plus scientist have studies showing that a smaller penis might be better than people with 8 inches or higher). as long as he is doing everything else to make you happy, it shouldnt matter too much.
i dont think thats a very good answer anyways, but just know that you really care for him and thats all that matters (plus hes amazing anyways right? why does it matter?)
2006-10-06 23:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by MikeG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 01:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that he gets annoyed when you tell him not to be silly tells me that he wants you to say he's small , perhaps it turns him on to be told this . I think average size if there is such a thing is meant to be about 5.5 - 6 inches , so perhaps he is a tad small , so tell him and say that you like it that way and that you love what he does to you .
2006-10-09 22:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by naturist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask your boy friend do I look fat? Would you feel bad or not if he said yes, or a little?
I'm not good with relationship but I heard from someone the key is not to pause when you answer no. Maybe you pause or look or some kind of reaction that made him doubt.
2006-10-06 23:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by eternalvoid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh this is always an issue with men.. even men with big ones have a complex, they feel they HAVE to show it off (idiots)..
I have been married 23 years and my husband still thinks he is to small..LMAO.. he is average like MOST men..
All you need to do it support him and let him know you are more than happy with the size, unless you aren't? The vagina on average is only 4 inches deep anyhow...
2006-10-06 23:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never been asked that question and I am 46!!!!! I wish someone would have asked me that once.
Honey if you really love him tell him nicely well it isn't real small and it isn't to big it fits just right. Or then again it you have to I guess just as to not bust his ego I would say well honey no it isn't small, works for me. Just don't say YES. Honey I don't know what else to say on this one but give it a try. Good Luck and God Bless
2006-10-06 23:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋