im 17 btw and hes 20
2006-10-06 23:40:08 · 16 answers · asked by GWYNEIRA G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you are still young. wait till you are 19 or 20
2006-10-06 23:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by agent 007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all to answer our question, i think you are still two minded about him, that's why you are asking the question should i or not! second of all follow your heart and if you think he is the right guy for you no matter anyone says then just do it! BUT make sure its the right thing for you, you must know that an engagement is all nice but when you sign the papers to get married, everything changes after that... believe me, i know. I knew my husband only two weeks before we got married, now that we have been together for almost two years, i wish i would have waited a little more, but the main thing is that i am happy. so the decision should be chosen wisely. Good Luck, and all the best
2006-10-07 07:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not only that your still young but i must warn you, some guys will can even wait till ten years just to marry you and take advantage of you like making you do all the laudry while he rest on the couch and when you decide to hav a divorce its illegal or he'll kill you, thats why its hard to find a right man, a right man will wait until 111 years if he passed the test for 5 years then his the right man but sometimes just by looking at him and his attitude can be a clue of what he is and what his not.(but another warning, looks can be decieving so try asking his parents, family and friends)
2006-10-07 06:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by thenewhorzta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is 10 months what you want to base the next 70 years of your life on? Wait for your mid twenties before you make a life altering decision.
Your way to young to be rushing into marriage. Get a college education before you marry
2006-10-07 06:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think it's love & 10 months is a long time.
Just because you get engaged does not mean you have to rush getting married. Get engaged & have fun. Plus it means a lovely big rock on your finger!!!
2006-10-07 06:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by Dannie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is 20 and you are 17, then you need to realize something very important.......a marriage based on love will not work without money. First, find yourself before you think about giving up your single life. Please look up statistics on marriage it the United States before you make any decisions.....
2006-10-07 06:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by 6ft5inallman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do feel that you both are a bit young to think about marriage. But I will say that there is no "time table" when it comes to loving someone.
In your case, being so young you need to think about your life and future. Be patient. If its true love, there is no need to rush things.
2006-10-07 07:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by nnett64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage involves lots of maturity, responsibility and understanding, also think about you are financial settled or not. Ask me when it comes for blammoing each other for small issues 4 yrs. relationship is also not enough. so wait up till you are 21 ans settled in all ways n' means.
2006-10-07 06:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by PRIYA M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever your age is, you should observe your partners behavior and see if what you see looks right. If he hurts you and never apologizes until your about to leave him like my soon to be ex-husband has done repeatedly before and after our "marriage" then ask yourself if your willing to risk it-- becareful stress for a woman can be deadly!! Think before you leap!
2006-10-07 07:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes too early! You are still in the lovey-dovery stage. Get to expierence more in life before you settle.
2006-10-07 06:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by Veronica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋