I'm married for 6 years. Loosing interest in having sex with my wife.I can't think of extra martial affairs. My wife's body doesn't attract me much.
2006-10-06 23:39:19 · 13 answers · asked by Sammy 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
After 6 years it is supposed to be more about love than looks. Maybe talk to her about it and do something to make it more interesting. Put some effort in and find out what she really wants instead of trying to make yourself happy.
2006-10-06 23:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by Raide UK 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is sad.. I am not interested in sex (married 23 years) but it isn't my husband, it is me.. I feel ugly.
Sex is more than what someone looks like. What is it about her body that turns you off? Think about what DID turn you one about her before and think more about those things. Look at your wife with the love you have for her.
If you have no love for her then you need to end it and let her go find someone who will love her completely, no matter what she looks like!
If you even think of having an affair, do her a favor and leave first.. Don't put her through that kind of humiliation and pain!
Good luck to you, I hoope you find in her what you once saw before!
2006-10-07 06:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
So what is it about your wife that you do like? Think of that and try again. Maybe you will change your mind. And remember you know what you got, but you do not know what you will get should you have any other ideas.
2006-10-07 07:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by B.A. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok - hmm - the 7 year itch it does approach. why are yo not finding her attractive? go into counseling if oyu love her. if you don't love her - get a divorce - it isn't fair to keep a loveless marriage going just to have a buddy with you!
2006-10-07 06:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by firenice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek counseling this is going to only get worse and may cause problems if it continues
2006-10-07 06:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something different. work out a fantasy, try new and exciting locations with ur wife, what u really need is to break the monotony and do something new.
2006-10-07 06:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by bikax1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Watch porno for an hour by yourself,get drunk,cut off the lights-you will be fine.
2006-10-07 06:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by super stud 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to a marriage councilor, and yeah, if she is gaining weight, ugg.
2006-10-09 20:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by j240na9u0jg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these things happen. it is good you are not considering cheating on her. try to find other things about her that attract you.
2006-10-07 07:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution for you will be to set free your gayness completely.
2006-10-07 06:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋