i wa smarride for 13 yrs and i was working, none drinker, not gambeler,not cheating,an dnot hanging around any friends, every thing was fine since we move to the Australia. after 1 year she start to asking me why you marry me i i just making a joke like othe cople say the she start to say let go for divorce as i think it was joke i sayd yes we going 2 maro and something like that. this get seriuse. and she want the divorce. we divorce for 3 years now she left australia 8 months a go to the canada and kids stay with me. be for divorce she was wake up in 3or 4 in a morning and chatting on the internet she said they my friend live in canada.
many pepole side she find someone in canada becouse she dont have any one there why she went there. i dont know and i dont wann know. but the problem is i stil love her and some one told me she said to her she hate me i dont know what i have don and i dont know how can i get over it.
2006-10-06 23:30:35 · 8 answers · asked by hrs_1349_1971 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some women do not know how to appreciate a good man. Also some like chaos in their lives.
Shes not much of a person to leave her children. What a loser. You need to be grateful that you have your children. Love them with all your heart. Be there for them and make sure they know that it is not their fault that she left them. What a loser of a human being she must be.
Good Luck!!
2006-10-07 00:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by nnett64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain will go away over time, the memory will not.... but there is hope for you. You are a good man, but it is time that you become a Godly man, you are the sole influence in your children's life now! Get them to a 1st Assembly of God Church as fast as you can, the programs for them will further guide them in the direction you want. There are Royal Rangers for boys, and Missonettes for Girls, this will help you greatly! Purchase them all Bibles, Read, Study and Pray with them, YOU have a great task the Lord has blessed you with. Consider it not a loss but a blessing that you now have the opportunity to better serve the Lord. When one is not married, they have more time to become more what the Word Of God wants....If somewhere down the years God places a woman in your life, just accept her, do not be afraid of her leaving you as this woman has, do not put the new woman in the shadow of this woman that just left you.
God will direct your paths if you allow Him to. God will greatly bless you if you begin to put Him first!
2006-10-07 09:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just keep living your life. I know you want answers, but sometimes the answers are "I dont know" Take care of your kids, and let her stay in freaking Canada with her internet man. Maybe she just got bored and had a midlife crisis. Either way, you have to find joy in the little things in life-kids, nice hot bath, good food, fun with friends, a good stiff whiskey, a joint and a porno mag. Sometimes, that's the only way to keep going. Live from little joy to little joy. I forgot to say naps- I love those!!! Good luck to you.
2006-10-07 08:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hay she divorce you. be happy for that she lefted the kids with you. time to move on and spoil the kids,, remember, don't say nothing mean about her to the kid/s And find a nice lady.
2006-10-07 06:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over a woman is with another woman.
She has moved on, so should you.
2006-10-07 06:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by Cal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds sad--in time you will accept, and hopefully find someone else to share your life with--your children need you to focus on their needs, so that will be a good distraction
2006-10-07 06:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She divorced you and left you- move on!
2006-10-07 06:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the girls want their husbands to be always with them.. often like to go outing with them.. u may be lacking in this aspect...
2006-10-07 08:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Muthu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋