He reli likes her and he keeps saying how upset he is, what should i do
2006-10-06 23:01:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
try to tell him this is the way of the world. dont tell him to find some one else immidiatly . many people faced such a thing and also many more will face in future . he isnt alone.
2006-10-06 23:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by sara sea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately that's life. The things you want always have problems attached, he'll find that as time goes on. Tell him not to worry, to concentrate on having a good time without her while at the same time being really nice to her, if she splits up with her boyfriend he wants to be uppermost in her mind if she's looking for a new one! Otherwise, take him out and entertain him to take his mind off it. He might meet someone else who's available and, you never know, better!
2006-10-07 06:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by Katie D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he should have known the girl better, because one can usually tell if a person has a girlfriend/boyfriend because they are usually brought up in the conversation immediately.
Besides, how can he be upset over something that he really didnt have.
2006-10-07 06:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by Veronica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him, he needs to face the facts, that she is not available, and that he has to move on from their. Tell him to just take a deep breath, and realize that he can't have every thing he wants. Some things are just not in the cards. Relax and try and go out and socialize, so he can meet new friends!
2006-10-07 06:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl and i would say secretly try break them up by writing a letter to the girl from her boyfriend saying dont like you any more leave me alone and a letter from the boyfriend saying were finished trust me it works and then give it time and get HIM to ask her out himself, it will probally be a YES!
2006-10-07 06:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by poo head 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is rude and harsh enough then he must brk the gal's relation wid her bf and make his. tat wud be the most senseless thin 2 do. otherwise if he is contend wid havin the gal ONLY as a friend then he shud do tat which wud b the most thing.
warning: if the gal becums a friend NEVER let her no tat ur friend likes her. tat will end the friendship also.
2006-10-07 06:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him that if it bothers him so much.the only way he will eventually get over it.is 2 talk to her about it,and if she wont choose he either has to break off his relationship with her or accept her and the relationship with the boyfriend and be the other guy,I guess.I would personaaly tell him he should just break it off.once a cheater chances are she would cheat on him even if she chose him over the boyfriend.
2006-10-07 06:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by dhorseshoer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that if they are not destined to be together,then it would not be.Tell him would he prefer them to get married then live a miserable life where they will fight everyday or find a new partner??That is e best mind twist.I m a counselor.So,keep my advice
2006-10-07 06:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by ms_rar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he should ask her who does she choose to be her bf
I think she's not good, so just forget her
It's difficult to do that because he loves her very much. You should encourage him more.
2006-10-07 06:18:57 · answer #9 · answered by fiona_rabbit2013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not your business. Sorry to say, but he has to deal with that on his own.
2006-10-07 06:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by byrne4u2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋