we've been together for a year and a half. he says he wants us to be forever and have kids but no ring yet. (?!)
2006-10-06 22:32:45 · 7 answers · asked by juststephgodawgs01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey. Maybe you could bring it up, talk to him and see if he is ready. Let him know you are ready for it. Tell him you fantasize your wedding day, you can't wait for it, things like that. Tell him you want to have kids and are ready. But remember, these are big things and sometimes need time. Be patient. I'm sure he will come around. Good luck.
2006-10-06 22:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by me 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Be patient...the worst thing to do is put pressure on him. Who knows, maybe he plans on surprising you in the near future. That or maybe he's just not ready...maybe financially... maybe he's saving up to get a ring. It could be a number of reasons. Next time it comes up, ask him casually about a time frame..how old he wants to be when you have kids etc. But without pressure..pressure isn't usually good
2006-10-06 22:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by katyzta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the people close to hm. They might be able to give you some insight. Who knows, he might already have something cooking! If not they might be able to subtley give him that little push. I don't care how mature or secure a guy is ,he's probaby a little scared about a number of things. From what you say he sounds keen though. Try the friends or family if you guys get along... Good luck!
2006-10-06 22:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's just a matter of waiting for the right time. At least he talks about marriage.
2006-10-06 22:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes obviously committed to you if theres talk of marriage and children so just wait,he'll ask you when it feels right,who knows he might be planning a nice surprise for you.
2006-10-06 22:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by fairyb04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him yourself. Be direct.
2006-10-06 23:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you ask him
2006-10-06 22:35:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋