If you avoid love you will never have to be hurt right? but if you go for it you may or may not get hurt. I want to know if it is all worth it. I have a mate who has been married for 10 year and they are splitting up because they have nothing in common anymore, slowly but surely over the years they made love less and less and their relationship just deteriorated, so is it really worth getting yourself into the situation.
2006-10-06 22:27:27 · 17 answers · asked by Richie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
For sure! And i'm somebody who's been hurt very badly before. A positive truly comes from every negative. You learn so much about what works for you by finding out what doesn't. Being hurt in love makes you a stronger person so you can appreciate your next partner all the more. I know it sounds corny! Couples who stay together and in love wade through the same sh*t the others do only they work through it. Nothing in life worth having comes easy!
2006-10-06 22:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Love is an awesome adventure - the experience of being in love is not something you can miss out on if you want to live a full life. If you get hurt it just means you have experienced another aspect of a wonderful thing...give it a go and be adventurous, learn from everything and everyone you come into contact with.
2006-10-06 23:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by jbabee22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love is so worth it!
the highs defos out way the lows
u can start a family, make plans for the future
u have someone to share life with
its much better than being on your own
u may get hurt in the end but i think its worth the risk : )
without love there is no point in living!
2006-10-06 22:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just dont get married then there's no tie that lasts forever, you can love someone without marrying them. It's better to have loved and be loved at some point in your life time then to never have. Love just happens, it finds you, if you meet someone you really like you cant just say to yourself "i'm not ging to fall in love because i might get hurt"...it'll just happen.
2006-10-06 23:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sazi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship with another person takes work everyday, if no effort is put into the partnership by both people then they will both loose. it's the togetherness and working toward the same goals with another person that makes the effort worth doing.
2006-10-06 22:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by slaedyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a big step that, every one in life takes. yes I think it's worht the risk to take a leap of faith. but if you get hurt that's one leason learned. then you got to move on. but never give up on love. it's can be wonderful too!
2006-10-06 22:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by linda b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that old sayin that u quoted is the most overused and untrue that i have ever heard! i have loved and lost and to be quite honest i would rather have not even met her, my life has been in turmoil for ages and im only just gettin over it!
2006-10-07 01:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by adriboff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't use the word "worth or not" when u r talking abt "love". In love (a relationship), thr is no such thg as worth or not.. if thr is, thn is not love anymore..
2006-10-06 22:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by a4apple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not love what hurts, what hurts is the truth in it.
If you fall in love, falling means falling from the conciousness, yes it hurts.
But if you are rising in love, then it gives a new life. to both.
Who loves and who is being loved.
But don't stop loving, fall & rise, fall & rise go on keep on falling & rising, Don't follow any ideas, don't look for reason, love happens for no reason.
Only in love you will realize that divine is no where else, you are in divine.
For me when you are in love,you are in divine. otherwise its hell.
So keep on going, keep on loving, love is all and all is love.
moments spent in love are the real moments lived.
So when ever you feel lost,Ask, I am always here to support you.
Better to lost in love than in misery.
Life without love is cruel.
Just go on loving, love, love deep from your heart, love from your being, love with all your totallaty.And only through love you will be
transformed.
Don't narrow your love, spread it, love as many people as you can.
Don't listen to bullshit ideas, which limit your possiblities to love.
only in love you flowered and blossom.
Love, love love for no reason, and you will become lovely, when you are lovely, the whole world will love you.
Just keep on giving, you are full of love, give it as much as you can
and you will see it grows, as much you give it comes back multiplus to you.
So keep on keep on keep on loving
with all my love
2006-10-06 23:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've loved and lost and I'm willing to try again because it's like no other feeling ever...
2006-10-06 22:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋