i want to break up with my boyfriend bcuz he never has time for me he just spends all his time with his friends we never have sex and hes so mean and rude to me everytime i break up with him we get back together probably bcuz we go to the same school and i have no place to live since im living with him what should i do
2006-10-06 22:24:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all take a deep breath and relax a little. Talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. Be honest with him. If he cannot take what you say then he is not really the person for you. If he cannot listen and understand your feelings, then he is not worth you bothering with.
Do not keep going back to something you know never works out. You are just folling yourself. If you cannot sort it out then I suggest you move back in with your parents and sort your life out from there. If that is possible of course.
2006-10-06 22:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by Raide UK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there. You are going to school? College or high school? Okay you want to break up with your boyfriend because he has other interests besides you? Do you think that its realistic for you to expect that he only focus his whole world on you? Regarding the sex thing. Is it unprotected sex? Are you trying to get pregnant so he will marry you? He might know what you are doing and is probably avoiding you for this reason. I have talked to many "Cinderella's" believe me when you try to trap someone else you only wind up trapping yourself. You also seem to be afraid of losing your living quarters with him. It seems that you are acting out in desperation. You need to separate yourself right now. Find other interests educate yourself that's why you are in school. Focus on education the rest is just a bonus. Good luck and take care.
2006-10-07 05:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard situation..the best thing to do is to confront him with the issues you have. Why is he spending all his time with his friends, why aren't you intimate anymore. If you really don't think the relationship will work, look for a new place to live and cut ties. If has to take you seriously and not just shrug it off because he thinks you'll get back together with him. Good Luck! :)
2006-10-07 05:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by katyzta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to be having sex by the looks of your question. :)
You're in school together, ok... High school at the least I hope. I'm sorry you have nowhere else to live, maybe you should be thinking about that now! Living together at a young age is a bad choice. I let a girl move in with me once, I learned too.. LOL I learned that they'll leave ya' for your bestfriend/co-worker for letting them do it. =\ Lesson learned here; but don't listen to me foreal. do what your heart tells ya
2006-10-07 05:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, ist not healthy for both of you. go back to ur family or live with a friend.
2006-10-07 05:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by Stella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off and go back to your family...
2006-10-07 05:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to end it,so do it.
2006-10-07 05:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by fairyb04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋