i don't love the person i am with do i stay with them just for the great sex?
2006-10-06 22:24:19 · 13 answers · asked by Lori 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
to naswer your question i'm 37
2006-10-06 22:51:18 · update #1
we have been together for 4 years
2006-10-06 22:52:00 · update #2
if you don't luv the person still having great sex... how come? sex comes b'coz u luv him some where beneath Ur heart.
2006-10-06 22:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by PRIYA M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I love my wife very much, she is my very best friend. If you should stay or not is your choice but sooner or later the great sex will no longer be there then what. Is it really being fair to the both of you? However if neither of you have a problem with it then go for it. However if you are not being honest with the other person about how you feel then yes it is totally wrong
2006-10-07 05:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I love the person I'm with. I think the best sex is when you're deeply in love with each other. So intense. When you feel connected on every level (physical, emotional, spiritual)...
I can't tell you how to live your life. If great sex is your top priority then by all means enjoy it (as long as your partner feels the same way & isn't emotionally attached. Don't deliberately hurt someone by misleading them). A meaningful relationship needs to be based on more than the physical. If you don't love him, it's not a relationship. Move on & find someone who meets all of your needs, not just one of them. It would be more fair to both of you.
2006-10-07 05:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by amp 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right now? "Love" is a word i have struggling with understanding the meaning of.
Staying with someone just for the great sex is fine and dandy in my own opinion if that is ALL you want right now in your life, is great sex.
Would that other person feel the same way? Would you think that just staying with him for great sex is fair to him too?
I would venture out to believe that familiarity might be keeping you in this relationship along with this great sex your having.
Ask yourself what love means to you, then you will decide what is the right choice for you to make.
2006-10-07 06:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by Takeaguess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yepper....sex is the reason to stay with somebody...
I just wonder if 50 years from now the sex is going to be the reason you are with them.
Love, companionship, trust and security are reasons to stay with someone.
I have a question... How old are you?
2006-10-07 05:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not a good enough reason to stay with someone. Eventually the sex will get old.
2006-10-07 05:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you being with this guy/gal? Great sex is nice, but it gets old. It important to like the person your with. You need to walk away from this relationship, you are not being truthful to your partner.
2006-10-07 05:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my case, the sex is horrible and I dont love him at all. Just tell them that you dont feel the same, but you would like to be Cut (f*ck) Buddy's. Don't let that person put your life on hold. Your being unfair to yourself.
2006-10-07 05:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by truetaurus86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I came out of a 10 year marriage, and now I am with the most wonderful man, I love him so so much.
2006-10-07 06:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sex will wear off and the relationship will fall unless there is something to build a foundation on.
2006-10-07 05:52:05 · answer #10 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES, I LOVE HIM MORE THAN MY LIFE! AND THE SEX IS THE BEST I'VE EVER HAD. FOR UR SITUATION, IF IT MAKES U HAPPY, THEN U DON'T HAVE TO WONDER WHETHER TO STAY WITH HIM OR NOT. AS LONG AS THIS RELATIONSHIP SATISFIES YOU, IT'S YOUR DECISION WHETHER TO KEEP IT GOING OR TO PUT AN END.
2006-10-07 10:41:11 · answer #11 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋