how do you deal with someone you hate??

Question

all the girls in my class except for one are very annoying.one is preppy trying to act all punk and copying all my dreams of like playing the drums and stuff. the other is so preppy it is not even funny they are both but ugly also.this other one is ok but is also annoying because she is so quiet. the other is two faced really clingy and acts like she is better that every one. all the guys like them except for the quiet one. i hate them so much every time i see them i get angry and want to kill them.any advice???

Answer 1

Yup.. well you must focus on yourself first and foremost. If you have dreams and aspirations, live your life how you wish to live it. I play the guitar and drums, and I'm sure by just listening to your question that you'll be better than her. Perhaps it wasn't purposely? Just never show any signs of jealousy, they'll see it as a weakness. Ignore the ugly people too... That's always easier hah

Answer 2

I don't think we hate anyone. we have extreme dislike, but hate is crossing the line. Hate is THE extreme, where i don't think we could ever turn back and love that person, or even like them. A person would have to have the devil himself inside him/her if they hate another person. Even people who have had relatives murdered forgive the murderer. We must hate the sin, love the sinner. Some people in life are incapable of love, because of psychological reasons, but that doesn't mean we should not love them and pray for them.

Relax, ok? You don't hate those girls. You just dislike them. Sometimes, if you feel you hate someone, you could do something you'd be sorry for. Have you ever heard someone say, "I dislike that person so much i could kill them"? No. Because hate is like a trigger, to do something really evil to someone else. It also fuels more anger to hate someone. With hate, you don't know how far to go. It's limitless what you could do to that person and still not be satisfied. Think about that for a second. If you think "Dislike", it defuses the situation quite a bit! It almost makes it seem trivial.

Just let go of the hate, and think "dislike", and you'll be able to cope better.

Answer 3

Hate and kill are very harsh words. Thinking like this will likely get you no where. You are going to find a lot of people in this world that are annoying and don't act the way you think they should. Who are you to set the standard for the way they think and act? Maybe you should think about why you hate yourself, and you will gain some in-site as to why you hate others. Try to look to good things about yourself, and you will start recognizing good about others. This definitely won't solve all your problems, but it will get you on the right track for a better attitude. With a better attitude things will not seem very bad. Good luck!!!

Answer 4

Honey, be grateful its just the girls in your class, some people hate their parents, I mean really hate them try livng with people you hate it sucks.

I think you should just try to ignore it, its not like you can do anything to change these people, so why should you stress yourself out about it? I've been in teh same situation and all I can say is forget about the stupid girls, stop paying attention to all the dumb things they do, because if you kepp this up you'll go crazy and start treating them all like ****, and then you'lle regret acting that way, not because they don't deserve to be treated that way but because you let youself turn into one of them and because you wasted your time being immature.

Answer 5

Just forget about them.

One day you will realise just how small a part in your life these people play anyway. In a couple of years you may not even know these people. Your school years will past you like a blink of the eye.

In the mean time - turn a negative into a positive - focus on your life - your future - find new friends.

Why waste the best years of your life being stressed about certain people who mean nothing to you & will have no bearing on the future of you life.

You ONLY have one life - & its already counting down.

ENJOY EVERY DAY OF YOUR LIFE.

Answer 6

Calm down. Get to know them better because you are only seeing the irritating things. There is more to them than what you are seeing. Its only the tip of the iceberg. This all makes you sound very stuck up. They are your class, you do not have to be friends with them. You just have to live with them for the year and hang out with your friends.

Answer 7

Stop judging other people...just ignore the girls that bother you and don't worry about it. Honestly, the way they look has nothing to do with anything and pointing out flaws will only prove your own insecurities. Just be yourself, hang out with the people you like to be around and don't complicate things by getting irritated by them.

And surely don't act out on your impulses to kill them, honestly you will have many more important things to worry about when you get older, unless you are incarcerated for killing them. And what's the deal with kids wanting to kill each other? Does it seem like it's the thing to do in order to deal with our daily conflicts. If I killed everyone who irritated me in a day, I would be serial...but I have the common sense to understand that I can't control anyone and people will piss me off sometimes and I just deal with it.

Answer 8

Drama! You should enjoy your life and ignore those other girls. It seems like you are consuming yourself with all the things they are doing to annoy you. Do your own thing and let them watch you.

I bet if you follow through with the dreams you want, you won't worry about how much you say you "hate them".

Answer 9

first of all, calm down and dont kill them :P
and then just try to ignore them as much as you can, you know, it's not easy but if you pay more attention and more thoughts to them it's just gonna stir the pot!!
hope you have a better class next semester ;)

Answer 10

Just ignore them. I know this is easier said than done, but if you let them know they bother you, they will make it even worse on you. Just avoid them altogether.