I don't know... Maybe you are trying too hard, being too pushy or desperate. If you go into any online setting, asking "where are the ladies at?" or "any girls want to be my friend?" Most girls will pass that by. Instead, talk about your interests and things you know. Girls will be more attracted to someone who is keeping their mind active with other issues besides a pre-occupation with romance or sex. I know that can be a problem, most people who don't have a partner are pre-occupied with those things, but try to shift it away from that when you're online expressing yourself.
Aside from that, Maybe you're a pervert and they can tell. Maybe you're 45 and looking for 18 year olds. Maybe you're being oversexual or romantically overbearing right away in your conversations with girls (generally not a good idea, unless you meet them in a sex group). Maybe you are not putting yourself out there, socially. Join a place like myspace and join some groups that are of interest to you (whether it's a group about your favorite hobby, sport, band, movie or tv show). There will be some girls in there who might add you on, with whom you might have something in common.
Maybe you don't have enough interests to make you seem interesting. Girls like guys with well-balanced lives and a variety of interests. If you are having problems socially both in your real life and online life, you might need to make some changes in other to attract someone, or maybe you need to work on yourself first. build up some good qualities to make you appealing. Not that you don't already have good qualities, you probably do . You have to find a way to let people know about them. If you like cooking for example, you can join a cooking group, and offer recipes, tips and advice to the group. And there might be some chick in there who really digs this guy with all this talent and expertise. The same goes for if you are into working on cars, making art, or riding motercycles. Whatever it is that you enjoy, find a place online with like-minded people and share your experiences and knowledge. And people will come to you.
Good luck.
2006-10-06 20:41:38
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answered by waiting_for_light 2
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Ask him if he's being completely truthful while he talks to them or does he regulate issues to make himself seem extra conventional, appealing and sociable etc... If i'm desirable his answer would be that he has lied some few information as a fashion to entice those females. So - if so tell him it is one hundred in keeping with cent probably that the two those females have additionally lied approximately themselves in some way as a fashion to entice him to them. The lie may be a small one - including they are conventional with adult men while in actuality they have in no way had a date - or it is a great one - including saying they are single while in actuality they have a husband or boyfriend or perhaps toddlers. So as quickly as he realises that persons on the internet lie approximately themselves maybe he will comprehend which you will purely fall in love with somebody when you meet them head to head and see them of their genuine, organic placing. a style of females might finally end up being the affection of his existence - yet on the 2d they seem to be a character that has been created on a working laptop or laptop - he has to play the actual interest of existence to confirm. you're a pal for him to have.
2016-11-26 22:29:55
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answered by Anonymous
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It isn't like an automatic thing, just like meeting people in real life.
2006-10-06 20:12:00
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answered by retorik75 5
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girls hate to be force!
2006-10-06 20:49:05
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answered by ~electra~ 4
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probably because you have resorted to online friends.....
2006-10-06 20:11:53
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answered by macinfire 3
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maybe cause u don't like girls?........i think if u really want something u can do it
2006-10-06 21:08:03
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answered by Anonymous
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don't worry.i'll be ur frnd.mail me on-
enjoylife_244@yahoo.com
2006-10-06 20:13:35
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answered by Anonymous
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