WHEN I MEET MY WIFE SHE HAD TWO KIDS AND NOW IM THE ONLY DAD THEY KNOW OF BUT THAT ANT THE PROBLEM
THE PROBLEM IS THAT MY MOTHER INLAW WILL JUMP EVERY TIME MY 13 YR OLD SON SAYS JUMP AND IT GETS TO ME LIKE WE CAN GO TO WAL-MART AND IF HE WANT SOME THING HE GETS IT BUT IF THE 2 GIRLS WANT SOME THING IT A NO HE HAS HAD EVERY GAME SYSTEM IN THE WORLD THAT IS KNOWN TO MAN AND THE GIRLS HAS HAD NONE NOT ONLY THAT BUT 2 YRS AGO SHE WENT OUT AND GOT HIM A BED ROOM SUIT THAT COSTED $1500.00 AND A BRAND NEW T.V. AND COMPUTER AND ALL KINDS OF OTHER STUFF AS FOR THE GIRLS THEY GET HAND ME DOWNS FROM THE NABORES AND STUFF LIKE THAT SHE GIVES HIM $20.00 OUT OF EACH PAY CHECK SHE GETS NOT THE GIRLS SO WHAT WOULD YA DO IN MY CASE I CANT AFFORD TO GET THE GIRLS THE STUFF HE GOTS OR I WOULD PLEASE HELP
2006-10-06 20:03:08 · 6 answers · asked by kingkong9274 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
THATS LIKE TONIGHT WE WANTED DENNYS AND HE WANTED CI CI PIZZA HE GOT IT HE WON THAT ONE
2006-10-06 20:04:47 · update #1
I HAVE ALL READY TALKED TO HER AND SHE DONT SEE WHERE SHE PLAYS FAVORITES
2006-10-06 20:09:16 · update #2
explain to the girls that the best thing in life are free and thats family and love. shes only buying him what he wants cause she buys her love. one day she will be gone and your son will learn the hard way life isnt put in front of im on a silver platter. other than that tell her these are your kids and if she cant buy for all dont buy for none. if she does keep it up take it away from your son and give it back!!!! this is your family!!!!!!
2006-10-06 20:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by evilella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answered your question.You need to tell mominlaw that the girls deserve as much as that spoiled 13 yr old son does,so if she doesnt start giving the girls what they need then she is going to have to stop giving gifts to the grandson. Fair is fair. Sit down with wife and you both go to mominlaw and explain it to her.You are the dad now time to start having rules. If she can give the boy 20 bucks each check then she can come up with another 40 for the girls.
2006-10-07 03:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by Joan C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your mother-in-law she needs to love all your children the same or just stay away a child being given more than the rest causes resentment toward the person doing all the giving so if the old lady keeps it up I hope he can afford to put her up when it comes nursing home time because the girls are probably not going to give a darn
2006-10-07 03:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by unwantedname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a talk with her. The kids need to be treated equal. I would tell her all or nothing. This is not fair to the girls. And the girls should be told to speak their mind to her in a respectful way if this bothers them.
2006-10-07 03:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lookafter your daughter yourself and get them every thing from your pocket, where as your son is being looked after by you mother in law.
2006-10-07 03:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and let her know how you feel. That you don't like it when she plays favorites.
2006-10-07 03:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋