what if ur parents said if u ever get pregnant b4 ur 18 that theyll hurt u?

Question

what if ur only 15 and ur parents already said if u ever got pregnant that they would kick u out and ur whole family thinks that if u even have sex b4 marriage ur a whore and u dont have no place togo

Answer 1

What if?

Is there a point to this question?

Answer 2

what if you just started a yahoo account to ask a question like this for entertainment after being kicked out of other accounts?

however I'll answer anyway. I don't think many parents say this, and given our times they need to educate you well about what else to do, what the other options are -- finding a moral crowd, recognizing red flags and green flags and the benefits of the latter. If they are really going to be that unforgiving to a daughter (would they also to a son?) maybe it's better to get kicked out. We pretty much all make mistakes of some sort. Maybe ask how to avoid such occasions and what other mistakes will have the same consequences and if the guy is just as guilty -- or if pregnant maybe start investigating options -- ask a teacher, maybe saying a friend of yours is pregnant (in my opinion you are your own friend).

Answer 3

Girl, all parents say that in the hopes their precious baby won't make the same mistakes they did when they where young. I was 16 yr.s old when I got pregnant, and 17 yr.s old when I had my son . OH DON'T GET ME WRONG GIRL, MY MOTHER RAISED 7 DIFFERENT KINDS OF HELL. BUT, the bottom line was she was my mom and I was HER baby. She got over cursing me out around the 7th month. But she did get over it, and for all her na-sayer friends, who told me my life was over. I set out to make liars out of them. I not only finished high school. I also went on to nursing school and became a nurse. Later joined the Air Force, and did a 4 yr. stint with them before coming back home . Then I joined the Army for 3 more yr.s and by then my baby's where pretty grown. It's not easy, but it's not IMPOSSIBLE as some people would have you think. Am I a whore, NO, when people ask me who I am, I say A CHILD OF GOD. AND A NURSE. THAT'S THE BEST ANSWER I CAN GIVE YOU PUPPET. STAND STRONG. BOYS WILL BEG, AND BOYS WILL LEAVE ,ONCE THEY GET WHAT THEY WANT. IF HE'S NOT MAN ENOUGH TO HAVE A JOB AND BE ABLE TO SUPPORT YOU AND THAT BABY WHY DOES HE WANT TO HAVE SEX.????? If your life won't improve then tell him ,to tell his story walkin' cause YOUR LOOKIN' FOR A MAN.

Answer 4

Well I dont agree with the hurting you or kicking you out,, but I have a friend whos daughter is 13,,, 13 years YOUNG,,, she is going to be a MOM before shes 14,, shes pregnant,, If you want someone or thing to love get a puppy or a goldfish, they are much easier to get rid of after you had enough without having the police called,

Answer 5

coming from one who has been there before, it's hard to accept the facts and to deal with the consequences, but you need to decide what you are going to do. There are several pregnancy hot lines, counseling agencies, and adoption agencies out there that can help. One of the easiest resources to reach is a planned parenthood, they can offer a wide variety of info to people in this situation. My dad told me the same thing, but flew me back east to PA, and helped me research my options, and had a lot of support from my mom too. Depending how far along you are might limit your options, but might need to sit down and tell your folks you need to have a serious one on one discussion with them and you would like for them to fully hear you out before they interrupt. Knowing what you feel would be the best for you and the baby at this point would be your best defense and can help in dealing with the parents. Adoption is hard, but would you be able to go through with an abortion? Only you can answer that and decide how to approach others on this issue.

Answer 6

ha, i admire that each and every physique spoke back this with something like 'no, i had to be partying...' what's extra efficient? eating or being a be sure...? hmm... i understand the type you experience, i myself do. i'm eighteen now nevertheless. however the belief has never scared me. even if happens, happens. yet i've got constantly been in long relationships the place i does not have minded being with the guy. desirous to get pregnant by some random guy or woman, undesirable concept. yet once you like somebody, it quite is comprehensible. you may truly wait nevertheless because of the fact adult men i presumed i could constantly be with replaced...and if I had to affiliate with them something of my existence because of the fact of a toddler, that would complication me. I easily does not thoughts having one appropriate now, however the mother and dad component makes me prefer to attend so i understand the place you're coming from. wait some years nevertheless a minimum of...think of of ways lots extra relaxing it is going to likely be as quickly as you have a competent pastime and could surely purchase even if you decide on for the toddler.

Answer 7

It means your family has your best interest at heart. They know that if you have a baby while you're too young, you will miss out on the opportunities of your youth. They threaten you to drive the point home. Do you want to test if they mean it by changing your life forever by having a baby you aren't ready to parent?

Your parents want the best for you. They don't want you being involved with a boy/man who only wants sex. They want you to have all that a good relationship has to offer: love and the bond of marriage. If you have children, they want you to be able to care for them, because you're already able to care for yourself, and they want you to have a husband who is committed to you and will love your mutual children.

I don't believe in hitting my daughters, but being beating and driven out of your home, doesn't cause nearly the pain of having children you can't care for when your too young to understand the enormous responsibility of parenthood. Once you have children, you always worry because you love them so much and want the best for them. Your parents say these things because they love you, even if you can't see it because they are strict or so fearful that they freak out.

Answer 8

I know a friends sister who was pregnant at 15 she got kick out of the house then lived with her boyfriend's parnets. Then the baby end up dyeing.

Answer 9

I guess maybe you should give some serious thought to NOT becoming pregnant. Why is this such a big deal? Use birth control, the best you can get if you plan on having sex. Common sense unless you want to be a mom by 15. If you can afford to live on your own, then get pregnant and see if your folks really mean it.

Answer 10

then you should probably listen and quit being a whore no reason to not wait until you are 18 anyways sex probly doesn't even do anything for you until you are at least 21 that is science for most girls

Answer 11

that is very sad....well i would have to say that your parents can't literally kick you out, thats child negligence, and if YOU have a child, thats 2 acts of child negligence and its against the law anyways...im sorry if your family feels that way but i know that im 15 and not a virgin, and all i know is that you should take birth control and practice safe sex (condoms, yada yada yada) so that you DON'T get pregnant :(