*siigh* well letz see now, all my friends take me for granteed and always put MY name in when ever THEY get in trouble with THEIR parents, and IM always the hated one by OTHER people's parents, when I havn't even done anything wrong! Well I DO wanna help them and be there for them and all, but im tired of them always getting me in trouble when im innocent. I wanna tell them to STOP GETTIN ME IN TROUBLE! but i don't want them hating on me cause "im not a good friend" or what ever....eh...does this make sense -.-' nehow, some advice would be good on how to help myself get away from trouble with out being labelled as a "horrible friend"! hm..oh yea, Thanks to any1 who respondes to this : )
2006-10-06 19:39:08 · 11 answers · asked by Tasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if i give you some advice are you gonna use it?? well anyways...why in the hell do you care what your so called friends think??...don't you see they don't care about you taking the fall....you are being used only when it is convenient for them....you need to tell your so called friends that you are not going to take the fall anymore because it makes you look like a bad influence to others...and if they can't accept that...then to hell with them...i can't tell you any better then that...but sweetheart you don't need friends long as you got you...and especially those kind....
2006-10-06 19:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by tanya m 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if i give you some advice are you gonna use it?? well anyways...why in the hell do you care what your so called friends think??...don't you see they don't care about you taking the fall....you are being used only when it is convenient for them....you need to tell your so called friends that you are not going to take the fall anymore because it makes you look like a bad influence to others...and if they can't accept that...then to hell with them...i can't tell you any better then that...but sweetheart you don't need friends long as you got you...and especially those kind....
2006-10-07 03:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by Tommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had some abusive "friends" in the past and finally had to come up with a method of dealing with it. I started giving them THREE STRIKES. If they got to three, they were no longer a friend, and good riddance! Sounds like some of your friends will reach three strikes in no time, so start taking opportunities to make new friends to replace them.
2006-10-07 02:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by Rainfog 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's simple. Start acting like a door mat and stand up for yourself. Do you expect someone else to do that for you? No one takes advantage of you without your own permission. Remember that.
And find some new friends who will respect you for who you are.
2006-10-07 02:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If these people were your friends they sure as hell wouldn't be using you all the time.My quote is" NO ONE IS YOUR FRIEND.EXCEPT YOU.I AM NOT SAYING TO TURN YOUR BACK ON THEM,BUT LET THEM KNOW THAT YOU ARE TIRED OF IT. I HOPE THAT THINGS GO RIGHT FOR YOU IN YOUR DISCISSION AND ALWAYS KEEP AN OPEN MIND ON WHAT SOMEONE ASKED OF YOU.
2006-10-07 03:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by northphillibabi67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tasha, tasha, tasha, first of all they are not your friends ok? friends do not put other friends on the spot like these so called friends are doing to you. they are only thinking of themselves and could care less of the rap you get.
you are allowing them to do this to you and you need to stop this behavior before something more serious happens.
cut the so called friendship ties with these people you won't regret it later. if not, you will
2006-10-07 02:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by lon d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take charge of your life Tasha. Tell them to stop, if they don't then you don't need them as your friends. I imagine someone as caring as you can make some pretty good "real" friends.
2006-10-07 02:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have chosen these horrible friends as they are taking advantage of YOU.
It's your choice to continue this way, or to stand up for yourself and choose friends who respect you. These people do not.
Move on from them and your life will be happier. You don't need them - they 'need' you... to use.
2006-10-07 02:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by auriform 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell them how you feel. they are not your true friends if they can not understand where you are coming from. They should not be using you.
2006-10-07 02:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get new friends
2006-10-07 02:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋