Hi I am a junior in high school, and homecoming is in 3 weeks.
I have known this particular girl for a few years but this year I don't have any classes with her, so I only see her in the hallways and during lunch. She says I am really *sweet* BUT
I don't know whether or not she has a date already; I want to ask her friends but I don't know how I would ask them. One of my friends does go to her church, but he's kinda shy...
I want to send her a rose with a poem during her English class, so it would be really embarassing if she had a date.
Please help me with this dilema...should I ask her?
How would I find out if she has a date already?
Thanks in advance...
2006-10-06 18:44:26 · 9 answers · asked by DZ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just ask her, do you have a date for Homecoming. If she says yes then say, that's cool, still haven't decided if I'm going or not. If she says no, ask if she was waiting for anyone in particular to ask, when she gives you that shy smile, move in for the kill and say because I would LOVE to be that someone!
Best of Luck and the sending a rose idea was great too!
2006-10-06 18:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just ask her directly. If she has a date already, that's okay, at least you tried. It has been a long time since I was in High School, but I would skip the poem and rose for now. This way you can shrug it off as no big deal if she says no. Try to find a time when you can ask her alone, i.e. not in front of her friends or your friends.
Save the rose and poem for after you go to the event with her, if you and her have a good time, and you want to then convey deeper feelings for her.
Good luck!
2006-10-06 18:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sean O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems like a typical high school flowers and chocolates kind of romance .
Be friend her and talk to her , spend more time with her .. and make a small group of more 2 people and go out on a causal lunch , these are little ways through which you can get closer to her and know what is what !
Go on and all the best and one more thing , dont wait for too long jus tell her ur feelings in a nice polite manner, and tell her you are serious !
All the best and go for it
2006-10-06 18:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my homecoming is mostly next week and am not going cuz i dont have a date but really send her poems and a rose if she does have a date then just send them and see what she say just try it and ask people around if she have date ask normaly to people ask them and see what happens
2006-10-06 18:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her.
2006-10-06 18:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by lucy02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not causually(sp?) ask her friends... "so who's betty(fake name) going to homecoming with" ..... maybe that'll help ... if not ... just ask her who she's going with.... then maybe she'll say no one .. .and you can say ... i'd really love it if you went along with me....
2006-10-06 18:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and ask her
2006-10-06 18:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by kuks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her u dont have that much to lose
2006-10-06 19:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be sweet if you sent her a flower and if you like her go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just think what if she has no date than what????????
2006-10-06 18:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋