In past relationsheeps I found it normal to make love even a few times a day, every possibile day... Is she loosing interest in me? She thinks that I olny love her because of "that" & it's not true. How can I show her?
2006-10-06 18:38:07 · 17 answers · asked by urmatoru 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe she is losing interest in you or maybe shes got alot on her mind.. you should just ask her about it.
2006-10-06 18:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodness, I am in your shoes totally!
My boyfriend and I have sex only once a week... if that... and it lasts for only about 2 min.
He's been on meds that take the desire away so I've given him a break... but now he's off of them and still no interest!
We live together and work together... but I need more...
I know if he did some things around the house like the dishes or laundry. Or made dinner every once in a while... maybe breakfast in bed would be nice. Something to show his love... anything would be appreciated. Maybe even a backrub - no strings attached. Maybe a nice date night... or comedy.
I wonder if being in a long-term relationship puts a damper on the frequentness of the love making. Personally... I don't think it should.
Send her a card or flowers with a nice little love note. Say I love you and kiss her like you mean it before you leave. Hold her hand in public. Go sit next to her on the couch and cuddle. Spoon her in bed.
These are things I wish my man would do to show me his love...
Good luck.
Got any ideas I could do to help spice up lack of love sessions? (I'm always the one starting it... it gets old after a while)
2006-10-07 01:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by InnerBeauty28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there is nothing else to do you dummy you didn't love her enough to wait or get to know her deeply you just got selfish and jumped to the next thing sex, now she is unsure and she is right about "that" too, I bet you every thing I have you couldn't go the rest of your dating relationship without wanting to #%!* her cause that is all it is to you, I bet you cant even remember what color of panties she was wearing the first time you got together, and you know why? its because your selfish and that was all you wanted and by the question you asked it seems that I am right, I feel sorry for your girlfriend cause your sofa king selfish your reeking through my computer screen. If you don't get it less action speaks louder than words and drop the subject man! GET REAL! Oh! and one other thing, there is not such a thing as a long term relationship people, wake up! Marriage is a long term! What people are doing now are playing house and they can come and go any time they want or never come back. I hope you figure this out soon cause you are heading nowhere soon.
2006-10-07 02:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Phill klueyain Jr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, communication is the key in any relationship. Just remember, she has a life of her own so don't crowd her because you could very easily push her away and you don't want that.
Making love is a very small part of the relationship. It's probably not hat she is getting bored with you, maybe she's trying to let you know there is something else wrong and this is the only way she knows how to let you know. It sound's like she is wanting you to come to her.
TRY THIS......
buy a couple of roses...make a trail to the bed....have the other rose petals screwed all over the bed with a loving note. Maybe even some strawberries and cream.
My hubby did this for me quite a few times when he felt the way you are now.
Keep it exiting and new!!!!!!
2006-10-07 01:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by firebird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man is the same way. He wants it a couple times a day and I would settle for once or twice a week. We use to do it a few times a day too. She still has interest in you, gus need to understand that women don't want it all of the time like men women are more on an emotional level.
2006-10-07 01:43:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nattie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm yourself down. a lot of women don't have to have sex multiple times in a week, let a long multipel times in a day! i think i heard a stasistic once that an average man thinks of sex 6 times a day and a woman, only 1, so take that into consideration. .. if you love her, love her for no matter how many times a day or week she wants to have sex.
2006-10-07 01:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by serenitynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Touch her emotionally. Take her to dinner,rub her feet even run her a nice candle light bath. Put in a girly movie and hold her the rest of the night.
2006-10-07 01:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason y it is decreasing is because she has someone else. stop having sex with her, and take her out more often. talk to her. relationships are not soley based on sex, there is a little bit more to it. it gets boring after a while.
2006-10-07 01:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you are doing is sexxing her not taking her no where or trying to other things with her. Well she is trying to tell you she need more than an hard ((((. and now is the time for you take the hint and stop whinning
2006-10-07 01:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by the sweetest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her decision to make love whenever she wants to. Don't force her into it. And also let her know what you feel, you might need to light up the passion again. Good Luck.
2006-10-07 01:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by CR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesnt think that everything has to be about sex...in a relationship there is a lot of things more important than this... once a week is ok, u should be consider if it would be once a month
2006-10-07 01:41:27 · answer #11 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋