My dad sexually abused me from ages 8 to 17, and he gave me a sorry excuse, how do I continue a relationship without me feeling strange
2006-10-06 18:32:55 · 2 answers · asked by fourcheeks4 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't. He's a jerk who doesn't deserve to have any kind of a relationship with you.
2006-10-06 19:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jade64 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel that you wont to have a relationship with him. Do you somehow feel sympathy for him? Could you tell more not of abuse but of why you would want a relationship
Looking back at your resent questions your mention of family is strong and fantastic that you have what you do at your age, however it is not necessary for you to involve your children in the life of a man that prefers to have sex with children. Your job as a great mother is to keep your babies safe from harm. You are not denying your children a grandfather you are protecting them from a paedophile. Children are very accepting of what we tell them sadly they see it as normal until otherwise pointed out that it is not. My heart goes out to you for your courage to speak out. There is no need to involve you father in your life as there is no need for you to provide a grandparent to your babies. Move on, grow along with your children and experience the childlike wonders that were taken from you. And rejoice in your rebirth as a mother.
2006-10-06 19:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by ava_weis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋