YEa im a 19 year old virgin and I feel like Im missing out on something everyone else seems to be having fun except for me.. so I was wondering if theres any one else like me out there! this is so embarasing!
2006-10-06 18:29:08 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No your not. Dont listen to a lot of these knobheads. Trust me theres lots of 19 yr old virgins in the world. Theres lots of people who havent had sex who are your age and older and all for various reasons. So dont feel embarresssed, you got loads and loads of time. The usual advice goes though: dont do it for the sake of having done it and do it with someone you genuinely care about, coz it'll be amazing.
2006-10-07 01:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by Eoin B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's this I hear about you being ashamed of your virginity? Don't be ashamed, be proud! I myself am so proud of you for holding onto it...I am doing the same thing (I'm 17), and it's pretty awesome. It makes me sad that you want to throw away this incredibly special thing to experience what your friends are experiencing. I know it can be hard to keep your virginity in a day and age where it's so acceptable, but it's totally worth it in the end! I mean, what better gift could you possibly give your husband? When someone teases me about still being a virgin I tell them "in a single night I could be just like you. But you, you can never have what I do again, ever" It's such a special thing, so stay strong and hold out for that special guy that you will experience it with some day. He is out there waiting for you! :D
2006-10-06 18:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by jennabeanski 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hun, I am 21 and STILL a virgin......I feel that giving into what everyone else is doing could cost you. I know a lot of people with reputations, and I graduated with a ton of girls who got pregnant or had babies by the time we were 18, and it's not good. I say wait until you are ready, that is what I am doing, and every month my boyfriend and I both dont have to be afraid of what could happen because we both agree that waiting is worth it. I know a few virgins left, believe me you are NOT the only one!
2006-10-06 18:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by overwhelmed85 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No i was a virgin tell i was 18, it comes when it is supposed to and the best time is when your ready for it. I was so surpised that so many of my friends freshman year of College were virgins. many of them were and are planning on keeping thier virginity until they are in a steady relationship or married. SEX is not casual no matter what anyone says. The best sex is with someone you love. My second experience with this is my husband is in the military and we are 19 so you know and alot of his male friends are beautiful and virgins, plus they are just really good guys. In their case it is just a lack of options. Pe proud that your a virgin and when your ready to take that step do, and take pride that you have more self respect and control to wait then most people.
2006-10-06 18:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by Margaret g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was a virgin when I was 19. I was a virgin bride at the age of 28. Save your self for marriage. It is so worth the wait.
2006-10-06 18:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea, me and I am a guy. And it doesn't bother me because one day I will get married, we will both be virgins and experience the true consummation of love between two people who love themselves enough to save themselves for one another and I don't have to worry about our health and we wont have to worry about our spouse comparing us to an ex-lover because we have never let anyone have that privilege other than our husband and wife. Never give your purity up set yourself apart from everyone else you will thank me later on your wedding day when you walk down that isle truly a virgin, I am looking forward for that day.
2006-10-06 18:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Phill klueyain Jr. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be very proud of yourself! Do not go out and have fun just to be having fun.there are a lot of reasons, it seems like there all out having fun. maybe their out there looking for something they donnt have in their lives.what are the risk they are taking having fun.when all said and done, let it be know or later they will be sorry and regret. save you self, you will be able to live with that.
2006-10-06 18:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Right here with you.....im 18 will be 19 in March. Your not missing out, it just means more fun for you and your husband!
2006-10-06 18:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by tigger32188 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
hi theres alot of people that are not virgin at 19, most of the time they dont make the right choice
but theres also alot of people that are virgin at 19 that way for the right person
so dont worry
2006-10-06 18:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by caio100gt 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I was 19 when I fist lost my virginity and im 21 now.....still with the same girl....Im happy with my choice I made to wait till it was right...cuz we have love and we still have some night when we just go wild...but...yeah...Its a choice u gotta make.
2006-10-06 18:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by J D 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋