My Husband can only last about 7 - 8 minutes in bed, we have about 30 minutes of foreplay before making love.
Is this about normal?
2006-10-06 18:22:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes this is normal, If you want him to last longer, cut back on foreplay!
2006-10-06 18:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It actually depends on the number of times how long it has been since the last time and how tired someone is. The first time is normal 7-8 minutes because the first time is about sex. You are both aroused by the foreplay and the first one is always faster. But, the second time should be very slow and seductive and last at least an hour or so. Not talking about an hour of penetration but all the exciting things that go along with the love making. The sweet kisses the nibbling of the ears or the nape of the neck whatever is the erogenous zones. After an hour of holding, cuddling and catching your breath the man can go a lot longer. Any way this has been my experience. Good luck and remember you can have sex and often that is enough but also making love is special.
2006-10-07 01:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by John B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the Foreplay to get very stimulated...use him for all he's worth.
Enure that you have your Orgasm first....introduce a toy if you have to...you already know he isn't going to wait for you and that is very selfish....
You may want to have a serious talk about it..truly. If it means that much to you, tell him. He needs to stop being selfish and try some different postures that will not stimulate him to orgasm.
Better yet, if you already know the type of breathing he uses just before he somes, slow down and stop...
Best of Luck!
2006-10-07 01:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by TexasKitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
count yourself lucky girl! at least you get foreplay! people seem to think foreplay is just for the woman, but I have found the more foreplay you have the "shorter" the actual intercourse time is. Is this a problem for you? Is that why you asked? If so, know yourself. Know what gets you off. And time it accordingly.
2006-10-07 01:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by serenitynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men just cant last as long as others. I think that if you are ok with this and he satisfies you with the for play before and makes sure that at his end you are satisfied its ok. If you are really worried about this I would suggest going to a Dr. but I think he is fine.
2006-10-07 01:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by marie w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I Think all men are different because my boyfriend can go for like an hour and sometimes more, But some men just don't do it enough and that could be why. Hope I may have helped.
2006-10-07 01:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by mieke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Normal
2006-10-07 01:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by dolphin girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is about normal ...
Make sure he makes you c*m before entering you ...
2006-10-07 01:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like sex to me try something different try making love there is a differnce and boy is it good take your time don't rush it enjoy it
2006-10-07 01:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by howcor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who you ask. I would so say no, but in real life those are the stats. There are however those that go above and beyond statistics (thanks GOD!)!!!
Best Wishes!!!
2006-10-07 01:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋