Ok so me and my bestfriend were always together doing everything and we would always hang out with these two guys that each like us and we like them so then the one became my boyfriend and she no longer wanted anything to do with her guy and ever since i started dating him she never talks to me as much and ignores me a lot it seems i dont know if she is jelous that i have a boyfriend now and i am not by her side every second now but she is making me really mad...what should i do just ignore everything, try talking to her, or wait till she talks to me?
2006-10-06 18:20:05 · 10 answers · asked by Donald V 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to her, ask her what's bothering her, and ensure her that your friendship is very important to you. Find out if there is anything you can do to make things more comfortable for her without jeopardizing either relationship. In the long run, you have to do what makes you happy, perhaps you can split your time up between the two. As your best friend she shouldn't feel the need to compete with your boyfriend soe hopefully she'll get over it soon.
Best Wishes!!
2006-10-06 18:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if she really is ur friend she shud understand that u nid also a time out,.. as inm there willbe a time that even tough u girls are so so so everyday together, still there will come a time that u will find somone that will need and want some of of time too so she shud be happy 4u...but just try to talk with her in a nice way giv her somthing,.. anything even small thngs like friendship braclet or a cookie that u baked or treat her at sturbucks and all that stuff.. just let her kno tha ur still there and girl frens are forever >>>>>>>>>>>lol
2006-10-06 18:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by 00_tyradjh_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't undesirable in any respect. I nevertheless examine with fairly some my ex's friends. they're cool and all. in simple terms be particular you dont' go the line with any of them cuz then that's in elementary words drama. If the friends are happy with it then you quite should be to.
2016-12-04 08:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by levatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have all the details but are you only talking about your bf when yall are together. she may not want to hear about your great bf when shes still looking. don't wait it out she may just miss talking about things you used to talk about before the bf. just remember this is your friend see if yall can work it out.
2006-10-06 18:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by charleslee s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never have to pick between a bestfriend and a boyfriend....it sounds like your "bestfriend" is jelouse of you....and if she is, then what kind of a friend is that?
2006-10-06 18:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to join you and your boyfriend for a double date, just with her...
2006-10-06 18:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by jrcarl2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her.just ask her why she seems mad.the same thing happened to me and my friend.just ask her whats up with her,and hopefully-shell tell you whats wrong with her.
2006-10-06 18:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Tell her how you feel and than you'll know what to do from there!
2006-10-06 18:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER, its better if you do the first move besides if you really want her back you should talk to her and clear things up......
GOOD LUCK...............
2006-10-06 18:26:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time maybe she feel bad give her time 2 fix her feels
2006-10-06 18:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by Cutie NM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋