what should i do ive never had a crush a boy friend or a first kiss and i dont care that i stand out cause of that please tell me what i should do !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! cuase i luv him weve been bff for 6 yrs
2006-10-06 18:11:20 · 16 answers · asked by slidinslim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
were so close he knows me beter than i know myself same with me i know him beter than he does and i m not gona do anything stupid im a christian and believe u shouldnt do things till after ur maried but i just dont wana mess up our awsome friendship
2006-10-06 18:24:52 · update #1
ah you young kids and your lil problems!! Check it, if you date now, you'll spoil things for the future. You may see him as "Attractive" now, but if your still close by the age of 25, he'll be "The One" to you by then. Keep him close to you now, but not too close. If you draw close now, there stands a chance of you two falling out, and you'll lose a friend...possibly for ever. Love him now for who he is now, but dont take it further until college. You need a few BAD boyfriends to appreciate that one "Good one" in the future.
2006-10-06 18:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by diaz276 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if u've been friends for 6 years that means ur really close so u probably dnt want to risk losing tht friendship. but if he's the kind of guy tht wont be uncomfortable if he knew u like "love" him then go for. Is there any signs tht he feels the same about u.
2006-10-07 01:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Nicy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the time 2 concentrate on studies.i have been through the same situation.but i didn't tell him.n' now i realise that it was just an attraction.i did not love him.believe me concentrate on studies n' u will be a happy n' well in studies person like me.
2006-10-07 03:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not uncommon at this age. So you like this guy, a lot, that's fine. But don't be stupid. Your whole life is ahead of you, focus on school, keep your cool, and don't feel like you have to rush to do something about these feelings you have.
2006-10-07 01:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by divad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say test the waters bring up the subject of frends getting together and judge his reaction if u really love him it doesnt matter how old u r but pls rememeber that u should wait for a more serious relationship:)
good luck!!
2006-10-07 01:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u first crush? im 12 and well ive had TONS. well if i were you i wouldnt wanna ruin our frendship but i'd sooner or later tell him.Maybe first ask around who he likes..if hes got a girlfriend that kind of stuff.i help my BFF with that stuff all the time! like she wanted to know about her crush and i found out who he liked.so i think thats what you should do.then if he doesnt have one write a note in his locker from "Anynamous" and say "i really like you.but i dont know if you like me." then if he talks to you about it you can ask him who he thinks it is.if not...well i dont know....lol well hope i helped you!
2006-10-07 01:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but don't go as far as sleeping with him,you will have plenty of time for that when your older(18-20)
2006-10-07 01:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen just tell the man sit him down or invite him over go to the mall when its the right time tell him that u want to be with him and u would like to be his girlfreind
2006-10-07 01:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a the same problem just ask him if he likes you and wants to go out
2006-10-07 01:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by Lilleigh Maye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish it were possible to have a true friend of the opposite sex.
But it isn't unfortunately...!
2006-10-07 01:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by mada m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋