and a very busy woman. However, you meet a man with children who also lives with him. He is a very good father, and you know he would be a great step-father for your children. You fall head over hill for him. He tells you he has always wanted to become a house-dad. Knowing you don't have time to do the things around the house that you want to do, would you let him?
2006-10-06 18:07:00 · 19 answers · asked by lifescircle 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hell Yeah i wish my man was like that.
2006-10-06 18:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was wealthy and he wanted to be a stay at home father, sure. Only after I had a complete background check on him, and talked with his ex wife and random friends and family. I would have to know and trust that he would not hurt my children or molest them.
That sounds extreme but I do know, from personal experience, that blind faith can slap you in the face one day. I was married 9 years to a guy I felt was a good man. Treated my teenage kids as well as a step-father can treat teen age children, made a fair living and never mistreated us. One day, to my horror and surprise i found out that he was convicted 14 years earlier for sexual assault of a child. I moved out and started the divorce within 2 weeks.
So yeah, if he could hold up to extreme scrutiny and I could support us all... why not?
2006-10-06 18:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by mommakaye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm....only if it is financially feasible.
I mean, will it cost less to pay a full time Housekeeper/Babysitter, than having an additional Income coming into the home??
If you are going to pay someone 300 to 400 bucks a week to drive, cook, semi-clean and supervise the kids, do you prefer to have more residual income that not...
What's better, getting some painting done by your stay at hoem husband, or pay someone to do it and spend more time with family.
It all boils down to priorties...that or the guy wants a free ride..if that's the case, she must have a decent paying job.
2006-10-06 18:11:56 · answer #3 · answered by TexasKitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a pinch, if that's someone i understand, particular. even with the indisputable fact that in you sister's concern i'd in simple terms both no longer have inebriated adequate to intervene with breastfeeding, or prepared through having pumped milk waiting. What might want to she have performed if that cousin hadn't been there? I also imagine asking like that positioned the cousin prompt: that's totally confusing to refuse to feed a hungry newborn in case you understand there is not any option.
2016-12-04 08:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by levatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not? Women have been housewifes for years and years; its the same thing, just reversed. Of course, I would only agree to that so long as he keeps the house and kids as tidy as the housewives do. There will be no lounging around on the sofa all day while I support everybody, that's for sure!
2006-10-06 18:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so you met a man that could help you around the house?...sounds dreamy right ?...if both of you were cool with it. why not?...unless you think he should be more like a man...some might say we got the roles reversed here...but when it comes down to it...are you ok with it ?? thats all that should matter...screw the world...its like a grls dream...my husband cleans and cooks and works too...i dont see a problem do you?...
2006-10-06 18:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some like a updated version of the Brady bunch.
2006-10-06 18:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm depends on how many children we are talking about as a whole? I think the more the children the more the household expenditure.....it would seem both parents would need to work to support the children and themselves....otherwise financial problems would lead to marital problems.
2006-10-06 18:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He better be careful what he asks for. I would not hesitate to give him a list of things that need done and that list would be pages and pages long written on both sides.
2006-10-06 18:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats almost like my relations ship my bf has new born twins a 2 year old and one on the way from a friend.were 21 but some times he seems older even when hes acting like a little kid.
2006-10-06 18:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HELL YES! But only if I knew that I would earn enough money to support the household!
2006-10-06 18:40:05 · answer #11 · answered by She-ra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋