My best friend and I have known each other for 26 years, we met in high school but he's married with children. but swears hes in love with me. but what should I do keep him in my life or should I say bet it. No sex involved he is such a good listener and very understanding,In another life I think he would have been the love of my life without question. What do think
2006-10-06 18:03:35 · 7 answers · asked by J B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If ya hang around the barber shop long enough, you're gonna get a haircut.
That being said, I think it's important to ask yourself what YOU want out of this friendship, what YOU expect, and why all of a sudden he's back in your life and looking so attractive.
What you need to do is figure out what's missing in your life and try to supply it without getting involved with a married man. Maybe you're afraid to get out and take chances and this relationship seems comfortable.
Or maybe he IS the love of your life, but the facts are the facts -- you may be the One, but you're not The One He Married, and you need to get something going in your own life to feel good about.
If you're married and it's unhappy, get counseling or get a divorce. If you're single and lonely, get involved in activities that interest you so that you can position yourself either to meet new eligible singles or be so busy you don't have time to pine for Mr. Taken.
Take care of yourself first, and the rest of this will fall into place for you.
Good luck!
2006-10-06 18:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by sparticle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking to get burned if you get too close. He's got issues that need to be resolved, but as long as you're around, he won't do it. How do you know he's not simply saying he's in love with you just to keep you around in the hope of moving beyond friendship? That would be a disaster. I'm sorry, but this ship has sailed.
2006-10-07 01:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by James L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, even though this guy has a silver tongue and golden ears, I just picture this horribly disfunsional realtionship. He's right there at the mid life crisis stage and all you can give him is a bad choice. You love him let him work it out with his wife. Move on. Wouldn't is bite to find you lost "Mr. right" because your still attracted to "Mr. Right now".
2006-10-07 01:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is married . Stay away you dont want to be a home wrecker and remember men will say anything to sleep around
2006-10-07 01:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by brenda g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is married and has children with your friend 3 bab resans dont do it
2006-10-07 01:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by Tommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont start it. It'll wreck both of you and WORSE of all his kids as well. He is just your best friend and that is it !!!
2006-10-07 01:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mummy Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it
2006-10-07 01:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by johnny yo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋