I am angry and hurting for my brother. I understand that marriages are very hard work. I know that you and him have even more challenges than some because of previous relationships and children. You know I am not a church going christian. However, I DO KNOW,LOVE ADN PRAY TO MY GOD AND I KNOW HE ANSWERS PRAYERS. I am worried because I know you have been physically abusive to my brother on several occassions now. I know it started with verbal and has now went to physical on your part. I know he loves you but I cant understand why he will not go and leagally protect himself. I hoped and prayed that with my brothers loving , caring, and passive ways that thigns would have worked out better. I just want you to know that even though we his family are on the opposite coast that our hearts and spirits are with him. I just want you to know that whatever the future holds he will not stand in human form alone for we all know the lord stands with him always. Sincerely #$%#$@@$
2006-10-06 17:53:22 · 6 answers · asked by timidlady2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
good job sis, but did you copy bro, let him know, how you feel too. love is blind, so the saying goes! an eye opener may be what he needs, people that care about him are concerned about how far he has gone. something for him to think about. being honest is never wrong! being biased, will counter honesty. if your statements are factual, quote them, if hearsay, evaluate your position. abuse, either emotional or physical is wrong, love does not include abuse.
2006-10-06 18:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, virtually each and every teen is going to try this! you're able to probably turn this right into a brilliant deal. except she is doing hardcore drugs i.e METH, COCAINE, CRACK, HEROIN, EXCTASY.. then do no longer say something. she would be in a position to advance out of it. I had buddies over each and every of the time ingesting while i replaced into, hell sixteen!. It replaced right into a factor and that i've got not touched alcohol, pot, cigarettes in view that. do no longer do something!!!! *EDIT* do no longer pay attention to Lisa Beth. She sounds like an uptight snobby b#*&%. you will turn this into some thing better than it is. She does not have a "difficulty" neither is there a quantity she could call to get "help". flow away it on my own. She's an adolescent. this is what they do! And take photos? heavily? i could beat my little sister if she did that. flow forward, see how incredible your place existence around vast sis will become.
2016-10-18 23:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a caring person to look out for someone like that. He should be so pround as to have you for a sister. I wish someone had wrote a letter to my husband like that when I was with him and he was abusive. Your brother may not look at it that way and he may think you are over stepping your boundaries so I would say something to him before she does.
2006-10-06 19:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that I would have liked to have received a letter like this from my husband's sister. Parts of it you sounded like hey, I know people have problems and you guys have had more than others.
Your brother should be able to take care of himself. Is he asking for your help?? Did he ask for your help? If you are not careful you will lost not only your brother but the neices and nephews to a person that you don't like.
TALK TO YOUR BROTHER!!! He will tell you if he is afraid of her.
2006-10-06 18:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by seekinghisface1974 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely not out of line. He has been your brother a lot longer than he has been her husband. Your brother, however, is the one who needs help. Perhaps he is co-dependent and should read "Co-dependent No More". There is a reason he is willing to put up with abuse. Encourage him to get help.
2006-10-06 17:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by Madkat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT YOU ARE DOING WHAT YOU SHOULD DO
AS A SISTER WHO LOVE YOUR BROTHER. AND IT MAY
BE HARD FOR ANYONE TO SEE BUT YOUR BROTHER
NEED SUPPORT AND COUSELING TO GET THROUGH THIS
AS YOU KNOW SOCIETY THINK THAT MEN THAT ARE ABUSE
ARE NOT MEN. AND YOUR BROTHER MAY FEEL THAT IF
TELL SOMEONE HE WILL BE WEAK IN THE EYE OF OTHERS
BUT LET HIM KNOW THAT HE IS STRONGER THEN THE
THANK, SHE OR NO SHOULD ABUSE YOU. AND HE
NEED TO GET OUT OF THIS SIUTATION. GOOD LUCK
AND LET GOD BE WITH HIM.
2006-10-06 18:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋