im just asking im 29 and shes 27 because we use to have sex alot and now it like 2 times a month
2006-10-06 17:50:28 · 31 answers · asked by james t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yep, the day she turns 30 shes like a sex machine, till about 43 and 117 days. Then you might as well cut it off.
A wise man (actually a Drill Sergeant of mine) told me; "Put a dollar in a jar for every time you have sex with your girlfriend. When you are married, take a dollar out each time and see how long it takes to empty."
2006-10-06 17:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes...women reach their sexual peak at this age...30-40. Were men reach their sexual peak at this age...17-27. She maybe tired (due to being a parentor a new parent/worked all day-women do get tired now) or has reached a comfort zone at this time, too. Have you tried a romantic evening of reaching her needs and not so much of her reaching your needs...no puns intended here, but men at this age tend to want their needs met and forget that women at times need some sexual stimulation even if we are at our peak (foreplay-warm oil message, finger foods, body paint, a bubble bath for two in candle light, dress up...Jane/Tarzan...Lady of the house/Poolboy stuff, a few hints if you have not tried these yet), before performing and reaching a climax together. Unlike men, again, no puns taken here...it will only take a sexy picture or a make-out scene on TV to turn a guy on. So make some special plans (out of the ordinary) and do a little bit of tending to her and see what she may like as much as you do and both enjoy it together. It will be unforgettable!
2006-10-07 01:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by dearestdawnte 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that... but I can't tell you for sure for another 4 years. But if your girlfriend isn't desiring sex that much now- it could be her birth control. I was on birth control once that totally took away my sex drive. It could also have to do with the amount of time you've been together... you know, at the beginning things are hot and heavy- and after a bit of time you are just used to one another- and things slow down. I don't think it has much to do with her age. Good luck
2006-10-07 00:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by Yassie2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not like some magic light switch is going to move from off to on when she turns 30. My wife is a bit more interested in sex at 33 than she was before, but we are talking fairly small increments here.
2006-10-07 00:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by Poppies_rule 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, all through the 30's, more so in the late 30's.
2006-10-07 00:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by ChazS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people have more sex in the first year of their relationship than they do for the rest of their lives.
You're going to have to be creative to keep the romance and passion going. Get a Kama Sutra book, or rent some videos, or something. :)
2006-10-07 00:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by PJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is due to physical, such as stress or tired than you should tried to destress yourself such as going for some exercise and eat more healthy food plus sufficient sleep.
If it is psychological, than you should try to make the environment more cosy and romantics. Try other patterns this will definitey improve it.
2006-10-07 01:00:16 · answer #7 · answered by sky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I never stopped wanting it...I think there may be something wrong with me, because in my household it is the other way around and I am 40....I know I am old, but I never stopped wanting sex...
2006-10-07 00:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anastacia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come talk to me. We are both 50, but she hasn't wanted sex for 15 years
2006-10-07 00:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think so, more sex with age, not just 30.
Did you have a baby?
2006-10-07 00:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋