I don't understand, why all my girl bestfriends starting from I was a kid, all backstabbed me. Am I really that bad? but why I have lots of boys friends? and they still keep in touch with me for years if I am that shitty? I never even once try to harm my friends, but why did they want to backstabbed me and always talk behind my back? this is only for girl friends, all my guys friends are very nice to me. I really don't get it. Why did I do wrong to them? I really care, share and more... This does not mean I wanted them to do the same as what I do to them, I just don't get why they backstabbed me and then didn't admit after that set me up for something to make my guys friends leave me, but fortunately my guys friends are all very mature. They will tell me everything and like towards my mom, I never lied to my guys friends about anything, all honest...
2006-10-06 17:31:24 · 17 answers · asked by Lynda Theresia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To be serious, I never think that myself if pretty or good looking. The funny thing is those who backstabbed me is way more pretty and beautiful to me. I am like a tomboy and I can say anything outloud in front of anyone. Why are they jealous with me for? I am just like a tomboy, I won't snatch their boyfriends or anything.
2006-10-06 17:40:30 · update #1
Are you sure that I don't have any issues? because why is this backstab thingy keeps on repeat on me?
2006-10-06 17:41:20 · update #2
it sounds like your friends are shitty and I can also assume you must always be "the prettier one"
girls are catty you've learned this hard way (so have I)
I say find a BF you trust and love ... find a serious relationship and keep your bad friends at bay
youll be happier
its ok Youre alright :)
2006-10-06 17:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the people here, those girls were jealous of you. They were never your friends. There was nothing wrong with you, a lot of people are that way, jealous for no reason, other than the fact that you're happy. I've had people backstabbing me for years. Most people now a days are just users claiming to be your friend. People will try to ruin your life just because you're happy and they have miserable life's. You've done nothing wrong you need to leave those girls behind and get on with your life, you will be a lot better off for it.
2006-10-06 17:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girl bestfriends are all probably jealous of you coz u get all the guys and they don't. Or you must be prettier than them? I think those are the reasons why they probably try to backstab you coz thats the only way they can get back at you, since you girls are probably "Bestfriends".
2006-10-06 17:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by ☺ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have more boys who are your acquaintences than they do? Have you had more boyfriends? Or have you turned DOWN more boyfriends? They your girl bestfriends are, certainly, jealous.
Yes, the hideous, vile "J" word that no one wants to admit (even men squirm and avoid admitting being jealous). And the nicer the guys are to you the more jealous snot pours out from your girl acquaintences?!
Uh-huh. They think they're better than you, and they are lonely, and they have vivid imaginations about the boys who are nice to you.
2006-10-06 17:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of them was probably just jealous that they're boyfriends would rather talk to you then them sometimes. im sure one of them wants the attention that you seem to have naturally so to make herself more popular she has to get rid of u sorry but that is the way it is sometimes but don't let it change you to much you will find a good friend as long as you continue to be one.
2006-10-06 17:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by charleslee s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of my friends are males. Because I learned years ago women are petty, jealous, and love to talk behind your back. But men tend to be more honest as far as just being friends.
2006-10-06 17:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it's not about being a bad person or being shitty, it's about being true to your self and knowing who you are, and who your "true friends" are. If you think about it it's a dumb reason for your "friends"(so they call themselves) to stop talking to you or to stabb you in the back. When the day is over and done your "real" friends will be there waiting for you to ask how your day went!!!
2006-10-06 17:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by jatahia4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has happened to me several times so dont worry u r not a bad person girls can just be mean sometimes guys (i find) r alot easier to talk to so stay close to ur guy friends and forget the jerks who dumped u
2006-10-06 18:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CUZ there haters !!!!!! way back in the begaining of life women always have been like that , guys do it to each other too . its called competeing . the girls are jealous of you ( yes even friends mostly friends ) . guys are the best friends to have.
2006-10-06 17:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by apples251 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like they are jealous of you. Remember, girls are bitches when they feel someon is better than they are, or get more than they do. Doj't worry abount them, if you are really a nice person, get rids of those bak stabbers and make new and better friends.
watch your back.'
Big D
2006-10-06 17:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by big d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋