is my husband cheating, he comes home and turns off his cell phone?

Question

want to know if my husband is cheating because he always turns his cell phone off or puts it on silent and also change his pass word for voice messages

Answer 1

Hard to say. If this is something he has always done, then I think you're just being overly suspicious. If it's a new behavior that he's developed and he's never done it before, then I think it's time to look for other signs.

Answer 2

I would not say that my husband carries his phone all day and it is non stop ringing that is what his job consistes of by the time he gets home he is sick of it so hell turn it off when the weekend comes around hell leave the phone at home .I have been with him at work belive me you can get tired of hearing it this is probably what your husband is going through doesnot mean he is cheating.By the way if you trust him and there is comunication you shouldnt be checking his messages that is not right it is like if he went through your purse that is disrespectfull .Talk to him if you have any doubts that is the best thing you can do comunicate & trust Respect.

Answer 3

You need more evidence before you go off accusing him of cheating. I have two cell phones. I turn them both off at night because one is from work and the other one if for home. You seem very suspicious.

Answer 4

Just because he turns it off doesn't mean that you can't see who he has talked to at other times. Look at the bill when it comes and see if there are any phone numbers that stand out. If you ask, more than likely he will only lie, and know that he has to cover his tracks better.

Answer 5

my spouse when he was my bf, he use to hide his phone and turn it off when at home or not answer private calls and turn it off or on vibrate when at home. I suspected the same thing. 2 and a half years later, it turns out he was cheating.....he was talking to this one girl seceretly for the whole time we were together and right before and after i said i do. I found out after I said i do.

but that is just my experience. not all people are the same.

oh, and he would not give me his voice mail code neither. I wasnt listening to his voice mail but after he changed the code and couldnt remember it, this had me wondering what was he trying to hide.

bottom line, go with your true gut feeling! dont wait like i did. you'll hate yourself if you dont listen to your gut feeling and act on it.

Answer 6

i dont have a spouse yet i usually turn my cell off when i get home also because i hate cell phones.
but for the password thing, not sure. its standard thath people change passwords for security purposes. not sure if he's trying to keep it secure from u or other people. what kind of job does he do?

Answer 7

I turn my phone off when I get home too. Not because I'm afraid who'll call, but that whoever does call can wait until tomorrow.

I think it's bad that you've been checking his voice messages. What are you hiding?

Answer 8

maybe he turns it off as he dont want to be disturbed..and his home time is relax time..about changing his password!!1why does he do this..do you listen to his messages??does he change them coz he dont want you to be nosey..or is he hiding something..if you have a cell phone...you can go into his and have all the messages forwarded to your phone number..then you will find out who is sending him messages...

Answer 9

Mine (ex) hid a cell phone for years in the dog house. It's a problem.

Answer 10

well if you want to know if he is cheating, just ask him. you can always hire a private investigator. you can just wait and let the answer come to you, because as we all know what a person does in the dark will always come out in the light.