My GF is pregnant (6) months. I love her very much. But I don't find her sexually attractive any more. Is that wrong? She isn't as interested in sex any more either which I guess is a good thing. But I still want sex just not from her. Is it okay to cheat ?what should I do?
2006-10-06 17:00:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
GET A CLUE !!! she has to carry your baby for 9 months,back pain,swollen ankles,swollen boobs,morning,noon,and night sickness,if it was you, would you want to have sex? would you like it if she went out to cheat while you were like this?
BUDDY,GROW A HEART AND THINK OF WHAT SHE IS GOING THROUGH.
hope you change your attitude for the better because what you're doing IS wrong. being pregnant is BEAUTIFUL and if you can't see that than she don't need you...
2006-10-06 17:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Gina 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not cool dude. It is fairly normal. She doesn't want to have sex because she feels fat and nasty and you don't want to because I'm sure her belly is in the way and many other reasons. It is a normal couple thing. She isn't sexually attractive right now she is pregnant. But no its not ok to cheat on her. If you are so caught up in having sex you should have covered that thing up. So, what is going to happen? You move on to the next girl and get her knocked up she isn't cute anymore and you move on? You will have 8 kids before you are 25!! Seriously, stop and think, she is pregnant wiht your child. And she weighs probably 25 or 30 pounds more than usual give her a break. You are supposed to be supportive not thinking about other women.
2006-10-06 17:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kellen's Mom 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You really have to ask yourself if it's okay to cheat.
Based on what exactly? Your girlfriend being pregnant? She's not fat, she's got a kid inside of her, understand?
Don't think being pregnant is only repulsive to you. Imagine gaining maybe 5 pounds a month, uncontrollably. She's probably feeling VERY insecure right now, and is avoiding sex because of it.
If you were any kind of a man, you'd be holding her in your arms, and telling her how beautiful she is right now.
She is carrying your child. And if you just touched her you'd know she's probably VERY interested in sex.... too bad you're missing out on a good thing because you're obsessed with selfish thoughts that would rip her heart out.
If you are truly this kind of a person, you should just leave. You don't love her. If you did you wouldn't think what you are proposing is right. Go now and prevent her and your child from the anguish of a separation in the future. Respect her that much at LEAST!
2006-10-06 17:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are an absolute moron if you think anyone is going to tell you it's OK to cheat on your pregnant girlfriend. You have about 3 months to go...ever heard of masturbation? It's OK that you don't find her as sexually appealing as you did before the pregnancy, but if you want to keep this relationship and be a good father, you need to stand by the mother of your child whom you claim to love very much...actions speak louder than words...be a man and do the right thing. By the way, she's only going to get bigger over the next few months--try to forget your own selfish needs for 2 minutes and think--how do you think she feels?
2006-10-06 17:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by becka55 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it is NOT okay to cheat. you say you "love" her very much. but how can you really love her if you don't find her attractive and want to cheat? you shouldn't have gotten her pregnant. i know you knew she'd get fat and everything. you should stay faithful to her and treat her right. sex is not the only and most important thing in the world. you're gonna be a daddy... start thinking about that
2006-10-06 17:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
no it is not okay to cheat she is having your baby !!! what is wrong with you oh i am sorry that ur gf isnt sexually attractive now cuz she is carring a baby man i think u aren't the right guy for her if you do love her very much stay by her side and dont like judge her b/c of her big body
2006-10-06 17:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by anna_banana♥LALakers. 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This very issue was on Divorce Court. The Judge said that the man just didn't have enough confidence in himself. ?To stop what your doing and look into a mirror. For Petes sake. Shes 6 months pregnant with your baby. Why not share this time with her.
2006-10-06 17:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
umm would u want her to cheat on u?? its NEVER ok to cheat..i guess its not true what they say about guys believing that a woman is most beautiful and attractive when carrying a child.. my X couldnt keep his hands off me. give it some time.. maybe its just odd to u... and if u really cant get past it, you only have 3 more months to deal with it. BUT this could damage ur relationship. id definately try and figure out why ur REALLY not attracted to her.
2006-10-06 17:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Grow-up. She's carrying your child. Some women loose their sex drive while their pregnant. Sounds to me, You never loved her in the first place. I have a question for you to concider. How would you feel if for some reason you lost your sex drive or couldn't have sex as much anymore and she or someone you really loved cheated on you?
2006-10-06 17:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by jayzee 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO it is not OK to cheat, if it was ok it wouldn't be called cheating.
Some men are attracked to pregnant ladies and some are not, if you love her wait it out, You did have something to do with the way her body looks now
2006-10-06 17:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by Shadow Kat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋