i am really mad at my boyfriend there is nothing i can do about it
I am mad because I am here at college and he is back home in another state.
I am here struggling with our 2 yr old daughter while he is home getting to do whatever he wants AFTER he gets off of work. which is driving around with friends and family.
i barely get any free time. should I have thought of this before I came to college? or should i just blow it off as a small thing and get over it. i called him and he said that he wasnt the one who decided to go to school.
and whenever i go home hes either busy doing something else or just driving around with his brother.
can you tell me whats wrong with this picture?
2006-10-06 16:57:33 · 13 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HIM! hes the thing wron with the picture!
you really need to get a reality check
if you think he will help with anything
i bet you could do three times as better by yourself
than with a "man" like him
honey if you love him try couseling
but if you dont then girl you need to hightail out of that palce
dont blow college off its a HUGE thing
you need college for your job which will support your kids college and so on and so on
2006-10-06 17:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've made the Intelligent Choice.
He doesn't sound like the Kind of Person I'd want my 2year old hanging around with by themselves.
As for the 'Picture' - well... it seems to be a far too common scenario. Just look around, and you'll see Dozens of ppl in the Same situation.
He doesn't sound as committed as he should be... but as long as you remain strong, and set a good example to your Child, then what he does shouldn't interfere with you and yours.
Don't go out of your way for him, if he won't do the same for you. He didn't have to stay in that State... if he was truly committed, he would not only just come and visit from time to time, and literally Make time for you... but he would have come with you and found work there where he could help you, and help the Child.
2006-10-07 00:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by SYNTAX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to live for you and he has to live for him. You are trying to improve your life, so you wouldn't be back at home probably sitting ALONE waiting for him pregnant with your second child living hard. YOU have a daughter you need to decide what you want in life for you and your daughter. You need to be able to take care of you and yours no matter who he hang whit you want big dollar or small change. You have the opportunity to be great are you willing to give it all up for someone who may leave you. You know if you take care of your business when its all over you will be able to make more money in a week that he will earn in TWO months. If he truly love you he would suppot you and that' the bottom line.
2006-10-07 00:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by charleslee s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're collecting child support from that SOB because it sounds like he isn't doing much of anything for you or your daughter!!! Just hang in there and do the best you can. Continue your education and get your degree. Then find another man who will be around for you and your daughter.
I personally don't believe you should marry someone just because you're going to have a baby with them. Maybe you were hoping he's be a better father and you're finding out now that he ain't. It's sad. But there are lots of dead beat dads. Add his sorry *** to the tally!!! Hang in there girl. Don't let him get to you. =)
2006-10-07 00:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing I see wrong with this picture is possibly he's jealous that you are trying to improve yourself. He sounds like a loser to me...if it's his daughter too, why wouldn't he want to spend time with her? It seems he's a very selfish individual. Get a degree and find someone who will be your equal and want to spend time with you and your daughter.
2006-10-07 00:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by mystery_lvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might as well get over it and move on! Your education is more important than him at this point! Continue your education for yourself as well as you daughter, Ya'll will be the winners in the end. Good Luck!
2006-10-07 00:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with this picture is u have a boyfriend who doesn't want the responsibility of family.
2006-10-07 00:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he has fed up with you. Never mind time is a healer. I am sure he would be back soon.You focus on your college n studies. Good Luck.
2006-10-07 00:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mechie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang in there, finish your college education, get a great
job and dump the sob. find yourself a real man.
2006-10-07 00:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mary S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u chose to have a baby with someone that is not supportive of ur goals in life.
2006-10-07 00:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋