she gets all prettyed up to go out with her friends and some of the stuff she puts shows off some clevige
2006-10-06 16:51:19 · 41 answers · asked by james t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good.
Your wife is like every other woman on this planet.
She just wants to feel good.
She basically just wants some recognition that she can get a second look.
But remember this, at the end of the night, she is sleeping in the bed with you and no one else.
2006-10-06 16:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well I don't know your wife so I can't say that she's not looking to get into trouble but I do know this. If she's never given you any reason not to trust her then you shouldn't worry about it. You know women still like to feel sexy even though they are married. If you don't like it try boosting her confidants by telling her all of the reasons you married her and why no one else will do! May be in the most gentle sort of way let her know that her outfits make you feel uncomfortable and why, honesty is always the best policy. That way you can feel confident that your wife will know she has no need to look for something of someone else to tell her or reaffirm her sexiness.
2006-10-06 17:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by spirit filled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to most of you're answerers. She's most likely not having an affair and it's probably not your fault that she's going out and dressing that way. Women just like to make themselves look good. Hell, when I was in middle school I wasn't afraid to show off a little skin. It's just what some women do. If it really bothers you, then yeah talk to her. I know it's hard and maybe embarassing, but you gotta do what you gotta do. I'm sure it's nothing and she just wants to feel sexy and young again.
2006-10-06 16:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by honeybfly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well James, if you're jealous, you need to talk to her about this. Are you afraid she's going out to pick up guys?? If she's happy in the sack, you shouldn't worry!! LOL Seriously-if there's trust and understanding in your relationship, then you shouldn't be asking this question in the first place! If she's ever cheated on you or you have maybe cheated on her, (whatever the case maybe), maybe you should be jealous. If either you has cheated, maybe you should be finding someone else to be with?!? And if she's only showing off her boobs, you're very lucky. My husband has gawked at more than that when we've gone out. Find something else to worry about, find another woman or quit cheating on her. Here's another idea: you should be happy she even likes nice when she goes out!!!! Do you want your wife looking like a slob when she goes places?! I'm guessing,"NO." I wouldn't worry about it much.
2006-10-06 17:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lighten up. Women dress for other women, NOT to be noticed by men. Men don't care what kind of blouse or shoes we're wearing, and quite frankly, you guys don't need to see the cleavage to know whats underneath and start fawning all over us.
Let your wife be herself. She'll be happier and as a result, so will YOU!
2006-10-06 16:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by free2b 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's fine if she dresses up. She's a female, she has to be feminine its her nature. Women like to be seen and still know that they got what it takes to turn head sometimes. Wouldn't you want your wife to be good looking? Show her off, she'll love it.
2006-10-06 16:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Usually normal. Women like to get dressed up and look nice when they go out together. Remember women want to be seen as attractive.
2006-10-06 16:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by shakopcool 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think a married lady has NO business going out to bars or clubs or anything such as that. That only causes you to feel insecure and it sends a message to other men that she is available. I think there is more going on here than you realize. Why does she feel the need to look sexy to go out. Do you reassure her that you are still attracted to her? If so, then she is obviously insecure and needs to hear it from other people over and over. Especially other men. We all want to feel attractive but it's not healthy for a marriage for either of the couples to go out without the other one to places that are known as pick up joints. I would seek therapy for the two of you and find out what her issue is. God bless you.
2006-10-06 16:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by oneradnursey 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I do the same thing when I go out with girlfriends. I'm not going to find or fool around with anyone else. It's just nice to feel sexy and get a little attention.
2006-10-06 16:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just b/c she wants to look good does not mean that she is in the market; as a woman, i can tell you that when i go out alone, or just with friends i like to look good, but not b/c i am looking for another man, but its just part of being a woman...we like to look nice! if that is all the evidence you have if your thinking infidelity, I would not be very worried! good luck
2006-10-06 16:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by dalilvr333 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋