my husband is a very handsome guy. very athletic ,and is a very friendly guy.a lot women at his job and at our church are obvously diggin on him. he politely dismissess it but i cant help being jealous!he very affectionate towards me and our kids.and know he would never cheat on me but these hoochies constantly flirting with him really burn me up..how do i deal?..please help!
2006-10-06 16:49:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honey,,,the best thing for you to do is to ignore them. Just remember that you have the whole package and all they can do is look. Make sure you give him all he wants in the bed and out of it. You are a very lucky gal...
2006-10-06 16:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes women can be very mean to other women. and some don't seem to care if the man is taken or not. However you say your husband very loving and affectionate to you .
Trust him he hasn't given you reason not to. He's never shown that right.
I think its just your fear as he's so good looking that what happens if he gets weak. Give him some credit . besides if he wants to cheat he'll cheat without you knowing about it.
You have to trust him if you keep at him with this question it will just hurt both of you with fights.
Besides you'll be able to tell in time. by the way he treats you and acts with you and other women.
You can't follow him around constantly you have to have faith in the man you married unless he shows you other wise.
But don't let this consume you . or you'll create more problems.
All the best!
2006-10-06 19:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
God I hope I don't sound arrogant but that's the way it is in my marriage. My wife is small and round. I'm 6 foot 4 and athletic. I'm also 50y/o and don't even want to "window shop". My wife is my world and I can see how if she passed on I wouldn't last here on earth much longer. Problem is I'm always getting the flirting type bothering me. My wife's solution? She bought me this big honking wedding ring! Holy Molly is it out there! It works most of the time too. My wife's a creative genius. My left arm sure is getting tired though.
2006-10-06 17:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't control the thoughts and actions of others. Just trust him until he gives you reason not to. Trust him to put them in their place. I know it is annoying. Don't let them turn you into a jealous shrew. Take comfort in knowing he loves you and is always going home with you or going home to you and the kids.
You insult his integrity when you think that he would so easily give up what he has with you for a few pretty words and false eyelashes. Hang in there girl and remember...HE CHOSE YOU and you are the mother of his children. You will always have a special place in his heart,mind and soul.
2006-10-06 16:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never let your guard down when it comes to other women and always make sure you are the fine looking woman in his life so he'll have no need to look elsewhere. It's a trust issue...if you trust your man, then those hoochies really don't matter.
2006-10-06 16:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be content you have such a man and that you have him. Worrying about all those hootchies will only make you look crazy. Be secure of yourself and don't worry about the other girls because he has chosen YOU not them to be his wife and the mother of his children. I wouldn't worry about it. Just enjoy talking about it with your husband saying, "How this girl actually threw herself at him and looked like a fool." Have a hoot and he will realize that your not like one of those crazy wives that will one day walk into the restaurant and mistake his boss for a hootchie and making a big "cheaters" scene episode. He will also realize what a mature women he has by his side and it will make him proud to know he has made the right choice when he picked you.
2006-10-06 17:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by jaaaam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard,i've been there, with a hot wife that I lost because of jealousy. You have to suck it up and know in your heart he only has eyes for you. Its human nature that all the attention makes him feel good. He will, in the end, wonder why it doesn't bother you and you will end up with all his attention at the end of the day. I know it sounds like game playing, but its just with yourself until you stop the jealous thing. At end of the day show him he's special to you and he's all yours. Remember Al Frankin, " I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and gosh darn it people like me. Also, keeping yourself the " fine looking wife" can't hurt.
2006-10-06 17:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is a good person who is loyal to you and your family, you have nothing to worry about. Be confident that you are the only woman that he wants and needs in his life. You have no need to be jealous. If you can learn to trust your husband--even when he is talking to attractive women, It will only make your relationship stronger.
2006-10-06 16:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really have to worry because you husband is taking care of the problem and he is showing you that he is only intersted in you. Trust and Believe in your man because you have the man and the band.
2006-10-06 17:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by A train 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't worry about it cuz if you trust your husband,there shouldn't even matter to you he might feel the same way about you.
2006-10-06 17:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by Sister Queen Mama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋