i got pregnant at 14 and again at 16 i lost both of them what could be the problem now nothing seems to work?

Answer 1

You are too young to be a parent, wait until you are more responsible and older. You will end up on welfare and so will your kids- not a good way to live nor place to rear kids. Kids deserve a loving home with both parents present. It is grossly unfair and a disservice to the baby that you wish to bring into this world to do so under the circumstances I believe you at your age will offer.

Grow up a bit first, secure a good job. Then you can find a man you want to marry and live you life out with, and have kids in that situation. That is the greatest gift you can give your kids, to love the other parent and provide a home for them under the same roof.

Answer 2

Hey. I am a girl who believes that if you are ready for a baby, then it is your choice. There shouldnt be people telling you not to have one because they dont know you. But i also think that 14 and 16 is way too young to be tied down to looking after a baby. I got pregnant at 19 and it was a planned pregnancy. But i had also experienced life alot more than a 14year old would have. I partied and partied and partied and partied and partied more until the day i got pregnant. So i had done all of that and enjoyed my teenage years. I was ready for a baby and he has been the biggest joy in my life. There is nothing better than having your own baby, BUT you have to be emotionally and physically and financially ready for one. You have your whole 20's to think about having babies. Im definately not against 18 year olds having babies if they are responsible for them, but it just really upsets me when i see young girls palming them off to their parents or whoever because they decide they want to party more. A baby is such a beautiful thing and should be given all your love which i am sure it will be. The reason your body is probably doing this is a sign that you might not be ready to have kids. If you are under 18, then your body wont be ready. Have a big think about this, they dont stay babies forever and they it is a painful thing bringing them into this world. Goodluck with everything though, i hope all goes well.

Answer 3

WHy were you even trying to get pregnant at that age? U need to grow up and experience the real world a little while before you start raising children. If you had a child would you want them to be having sex and children at age 14? Just something to think about.

Answer 4

miscarriage is not uncommon. I know of someone who had 2, then had 2 normal pregnancies. You are very young. What is the hurry? Get an education and a job first so you can afford a child. Life is expensive. You want your child to have it's needs met and not be poor.

Answer 5

Dont keep trying to get pregnant it will happen when your ready make sure he is the one you want to share your life with.Just wait your life mean more then a baby right now

Answer 6

You are too young, girl. Wait till you are much older. At least till you are 18 or 21 or when you become a more responsible person.

Answer 7

I sure hope that you are older, and wiser. Perhaps God spared you the agony of teen motherhood. When you haven't grown up, you cannot just parent by instinct.
Now what's wrong is that you have to have a guy to impregnate you. By your questions, I assume that you did not know how babies were made .
See a doctor, hun.

Answer 8

Maybe the problem is you're too young. Quit trying to have a baby!

Answer 9

You were very young. You should talk to your doctor about this because you are still young. Your body might not be able to handle this right now.

Answer 10

getting pregnant at this young age could be very dangerous because your body can not support the embryo due to the incomplete maturation of the uterus .