so, i'm 13, just had my first baby... what should we do??
2006-10-06 16:34:24 · 19 answers · asked by Silence Dogood 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Oh, gosh. What has the world turn to nowadays???
You are thirteen and you just had a baby? You seriously need help dude. Join a support group. Ask your parents or whatever.
Oh, wait! You're a liar! In your previous question, you said you are 14 and that your girlfriend is 16. So how can you be 13 now??? LIAR. and i bet you didn't just have a baby.
2006-10-06 18:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by whitelighter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i got pregnant at 15 all you need to do is make sure the baby has some health insurance and there are things like WIC where they give you formula for free your too young to get a full time job but a job after school would be good to help support your new family (girlfriend and child) or another good idea is if you need to start homeschooling yourself and you could get a job for more hours and help out your parents or her parents support the baby... you made a mistake a man would and now you have to fix it like a man would weather putting your baby up for adoption or getting a job and getting through the rough times till you can really support your family do what God wants you to do! Email me if you need help i can set up ur girlfriend with some info Jsbabb1 or Jsbabb1@yahoo.com
2006-10-07 02:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by jsbabb1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister had her first baby when she was 15. She found a great home for her son and still knows and is great friends with his new father and mother. Her son is now 5 years old and she sees him almost every week. He doesn't know that she is his real mother but she hopes that he will one day. I hope you guys can get through this. God bless you and your new baby. I would say to either keep this new child or find a great home for him/her. Don't give them to an adoption agency but find them a home yourself. Interview couples and make some ones wish who can't have children of there own.
2006-10-07 01:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by Chaysee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to take care of the baby-- feeding, washing, playing with the baby. You can ask someone you trust or experienced with baby-sitting to help you. I would say learning to handle a child when technically you are still a child is a mature move some adults won't even try.
2006-10-07 06:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by Lindsey Azriel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to be the best dad possible. At 13, you are still young, take advice from adults close to you and love that lil baby.
2006-10-06 23:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take care of the baby cuz it's already here, too late to think bout that now
2006-10-07 00:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your mommy & daddy. You lived to be 13 so they must of done at least one thing right.
2006-10-06 23:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd say put the baby up for adoption
you are way too young
but also turn to your parents, and family member and seek advice
2006-10-07 00:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by Tammi =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont u mean your girlfriend? and HOW COULD U GET A 13 YEAR OLD PREGNANT. put that thing away. sheesh
2006-10-07 00:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PUT THE BABY UP FOR ADOPTION. YOU ARE WAY TO YOUNG TO BE A PARENT.
2006-10-07 00:58:27 · answer #10 · answered by Answer Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋