In schooli can't even talk to any1...i'm getting better at it but i still need some tip. i mean i try to talk to the popular girls and everything. but i can never say anything when they talk to me...some1 help...please...
2006-10-06 16:34:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh and let me mention this...i am selfconcious abot myself....so maybe thats why i can't talk to any1.....
2006-10-06 16:38:17 · update #1
I also tend to get kinda embarressed when talking.......
2006-10-06 16:42:33 · update #2
well in my school some of the popular girls are nice and some are snobs...i want to be friends with the nice ones........
2006-10-06 17:13:27 · update #3
Sister, I can relate to your situation. I was in the same predicament when I was a young person. What worked for me was to get my teeth cleaned and my life opened up like a Lilly. Just be your beautiful self and smile a lot; don't try to compete with other popular girls. There popularity may be for reasons you must avoid like the plague.
Avoid unfamiliar topics and get into conversation which you feel knowledgeable. Don't come across as a snob or have an attitude you are better than the other person.
Plus lean with the wind and go with what mother nature gives you. Swimming upstream will eventually take you backwards.
I wish you luck. Also remember to be good to yourself(-:
Grandpa
2006-10-06 17:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont hang out with the popular girls. They could and WOULD use you, so dont. I was like you before but as I grew up, I start to talk more and hang out with people. Girl, if they are talking about something that you like or you want to give an opinion, dont wait and ask permission, ask or say it right away. But of course, think before speaking, some may not like it. Just be yourself
2006-10-06 17:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by AnyL12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being shy is very good. It is a boon you have got from God. Respect it, instead of looking at it negative. Have trust and believe in your self. Be friendly with each and everyone, don't make differences, as you do not want any one looks different at you.
Many of the popular top artists of the world are very shy by nature. Being shy also protects you from doing stupid and wrong things in young age.
2006-10-06 17:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by dotab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ! if u want to became a talkative & outing girl try to increase your self confidence, share your thoughs & feeling with everyone, tell others when u r happy & y r u happy.If u want 2 talk 2 d popular girls try 2 b as they r & make them realise that u can b a part of them.
2006-10-06 17:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by smart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn't start with the popular girls. They tend to be stuck up. Try finding someone who is quiet like yourself to start out with & then work your way up to the popular girls. Just smile & say hello. Ask someone if they'd like to sit with you at lunch.
2006-10-06 16:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be. you are God's gift to this earth. try being more accepting of your flaws. try more-selfesteem.com and communicationconfidence.com. you have things to say. just stop thinking. try holisticonline.com. it'll help you deal with stress and breathing. try concentration.org.
2006-10-06 16:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say ..talk to everyone. just be friendly to everyone, not just the popular girls. be yourself.
2006-10-06 16:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
da important thing is 2 always ask ?'s...like where your next class...who do u like...ask dem ?'s...
2006-10-06 17:17:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋