2006-10-06 16:18:11 · 19 answers · asked by lovy 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Wow, I'm sorry that you couldn't even get one respectful answer on this site. What you need to do now is call your local planned parenthood or abortion clinic (if you are american). If you are Canadian, you an visit your regular doctor and/or walk in clinic and tell them that you need an abortion. They'll refer you to the local abortion doctor and you'll get the abortion done in a hospital.
You need to do this now! Since you are only 4 weeks pregnant you still have the choice to have a medical abortion or a surgical abortion. You can look the differences up on www.plannedparenthood.org A medical abortion is where you take a couple of pills to induce miscarriage and it happens at home. I have to warn you though, lots of pain and it's drawn out. A surgical abortion is done with or without anesthetic and it's over in about 20 minutes. I had a surgical under anesthetic at about 15 weeks pregnant when I was 20 or 21 I can't remember and it hurt no more than monthly cramps when I woke up and was fine a few hours later except that the anestetic made me feel a little sick.
Keep your head up and forget about the ignorant people out there who hate women and will give you sh*t for your choices in life. These people are not worth your time and lack all capacity for empathy or understanding. Pro-lifers are barely people at all.
Whatever you choose if it's the right thing, you won't regret it and not all women look at babies and children and thing "I could have had one". Personally, I can't stand babies and think "thank God abortions are legal and I don't have one of those things." Perspectives on the past may change but, the past doesn't change. Do what you know to be right.
2006-10-06 19:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my personal opinion, I think that killing a baby is wrong. If you didn't want to get pregnant, you should've used a condom, or not have had sex at all. You're 22. When are you going to grow up? Think about it. Do you really want to live the rest of your life knowing that you killed your son or daughter? Abortion in my world is the unforgivable sin. Having an abortion would stop a beating heart. It's murder. Don't do it. Put the baby up for adoption.
2006-10-07 06:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Momma Jette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy it is interesting how so many have bad opinions of a womans right to choose.It is your body-it is your life-only you know whats right for you.If you are only 4 weeks pregnant-you are not killing a 'baby' just a tablespoon of chorionic villi-it is an easy procedure-anyone who thinks any woman takes this lightly is not dealing with a full deck. If you are not ready for a baby-to care and support a child-then it is your choice if you choose not to at this time.And it is probably a wise choice-only you can make it--women fought long and hard to legalize this right-use it if you need to-and do not look back--try planned parenthood in your area......good luck...having had one myself I can tell you there are no regrets-or psych damage-it was a hard choice but it was the right one--it has been over 25 years now-and i waited to have a family when it was right...do you think any of these judgemental people will be there to help you??NO--you have to be able to support the baby emotionally and financially--alone!! Only you know what you can handle--
2006-10-06 23:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by lynn8953 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
since you didn't go into details about why you NEED one, i'm assuming that you have your reasons and no you don't need to justify yourself to anyone. grab a gf you can trust and go, a true friend will be there for you every step of the way. i've never had one done, but i've been the friend and i've never judged her for her reasons. if you get the surgical procedure done (as opposed to the pills) they won't let you drive home so make sure you have all that in order and perhaps councilling because some girls can go home like nothing happened, some can never get over it. don't make a hasty decision because it really is a life or death one. good luck to you and hold your head high....there's people who would kill to see you fall, especially after this one.
2006-10-07 09:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by ma_to_b_x3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortions ruin lives, and I am not talking about the unborns. I hope you reconsider. In 6 years you will be seeing all the little girls and boys getting their pictures taken on the first day of school, and remember that you could have had one that age. I am telling you. please reconsider.
If you decide to give it up, you can do that and have an open adoption where you can still be in contact but not have to raise the child.
Whatever you decide, get help and support from people who love you.
2006-10-06 23:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by mynickname 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that. If you have decided that this is definitely your decision, then you should do it as soon as possible. It will be worse for you if you wait. Are you certain that you don't want to keep the baby? There are so many people who are desperate for children. Believe me when I say I'm not judging and I totally believe that this is a personal decision, but it is one you will always carry with you - whatever you decide to do. Good luck to you.
2006-10-06 23:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You were old enough to lay down now ACT old enough to accept the responsibility for your actions..Everything action has a reaction, this is yours..NOW BE A GROWN UP and take care of your responsibilities! (What if your mother had chose to abort you? Ever think of that?)
2006-10-06 23:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by heandI 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
by aborting, u are not killing anyone, the soul which was supposed to come to that body, since u dropped it, it will go to another body to grow and live.
But next time be carefull and think about everything before having sex.
YOU SUCK
2006-10-08 10:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by Very late 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont abort!It is just murder to the unborn!Go through with the birth and put the poor child up for adoption!
Please dont abort!Its a sin!Its one of the ten comandments!
2006-10-06 23:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by daddys girl14238 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u should have thought about it before u had the relationship. consider abortion only if u have no other option. think wisely!
2006-10-06 23:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by queen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋