we want a baby so bad!!!?

Question

why cant we get pregnant?

Answer 1

I know what you mean, It is so frustrating and about drives you crazy. If you have really important questions try this website www.wondir.com its free just select the woman health preg section and ask away. The people on the site are great. You'll like it. by the way it is very addicting

Answer 2

what are you trying. because contrary to all the 15 year old girls walking around pregnant it's not that easy. First of all count the days of your period cycle and buy some ovulation kits they are 18.00$$ at target. depending on the chart in side the box start testing every day around the7th or 8th day of your cycle. when your Lh surge goes up it will tell you what that is have sex that day once and the next day also on the day after that your unfertilized egg only live for 24 hours at some point during that time. also wait a day or two to have sex prior to ovultion if your having sex twice a day then the sperm cant reproduce fast enough but one a day is fine. now to the sex part the best penetration is for you to be on your back knee's to chest if you are doing this keep a pllow under your but any dont get up after sex wait 15 minutes so the c-m stays in if you are girl on top or getting up very quickly them gravity can take course and nothing happens in there but if you have a tilted uterus like me. then doggy style is the way to go and leave your rear in the air with your elbows on the bed or where ever for 15 minutes that will alow the sperm to swim up like there supposed to. Good luck I hope this works for dont give up it could take a while if it's been more than six months see a doctor.

Answer 3

I believe making babies are the toughest thing in the world. You are not alone. There are a lot of things which should happen before and after u make love. But Don't worry with this all the time. I was told that when u think of making babies all the time during ur Love ur hormones started to secrete more in ur glnds in the brain and it may obstruct u to skip ur periods or collapse the fusion of ur egg with the sperm. So relax and enjoy ur family life.

Answer 4

I totally understand--I've been trying for three years! And my sister just got pregnant on accident!!

Have you read "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" by Toni Weschler? If not, get that book right away! If you're having problems and don't know why, it's important to learn all there is to know about charting your cycle, and what medical options are available.

Secondly, if you've been trying for a year or more (or maybe just six months), see a doctor! One of you may have a medical condition that would explain it.

Good luck to you!

Answer 5

To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.

After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.

After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.

Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.

Answer 6

try not to stress about too much that can prevent you from getting pregnant. Focus on your relationship and your career and it will happen because that is what i'm doing now. Its hard to stop trying but i'm sure it will happen. I believe it will happen. good luck. how long have you been trying? plus get check out by a doc and see if he needs to get a sperm count.

Answer 7

Go to this link: www.AmericanBaby.com (When you first click on a subscription pop-up will appear so wait for the close button to appear then you'll see the articles listed on the page). We had to do alot of research prior to our first child. If its been over a year you're both due for a visit to the fertility doctor. Check his sperm count; you need to check for ovulation cycles.

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Answer 8

Go to http://www.mymonthlycycles.com and put in your period info and it will calculate when you will be fertile and ovulating.
(It is a free and very helpful site)

How long have you been trying? It took me a year to get pregnant. If it has been over a year then go and see a doctor (both of you)

Good luck

Answer 9

Just relax and concentrate on your love for your man. Remember the reasons you fell in love and how wonderful things are. Dont let the stress of concieving keep it from happening. And dont let the negative energy from your frustration pass to your child during conception. All things in time. Good luck

Answer 10

We are sailing in the same boat, i guess. Its tough to do..but, just try to take it off ur mind, and enjoy the activity as if u were just doing it..and, one fine day u''l be pregnant. All the best!!