ok well basically me and my boyfriend were going out for like 3 weeks and I went to his house and we ended up having sex and i told one person and all my friends want to know what happened now which sucks anyway should i lie to them? and the main question i want to break up with my boyfriend now because we just arent working out but i dont know if its the right thing to do after all thats happened. ugh i need advice
2006-10-06 15:53:07 · 9 answers · asked by khsahtlete 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you do not feel comfortable in the relationship, get out of it. What is done is done.
2006-10-06 15:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by TLWOLFf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't kiss and tell but, you already have anyhow. Why did you break-up? Is it because you said things about you and him to your friends? You never really say what really happens with you and your boyfriend you keep that confidential. If friends ask if you kiss, have sex with him yet or other things just say: I have him don't I ? And smile when you say it. It will keep people wondering. And guess what? You and your boyfriend only are the to souls that know unless he has a big mouth too. Sorry. Try working things out with him. At least you try and you will feel better about it in the long run. If he doesn't want to get back with you it's his lose. Good luck! See Ya, Bye!
2006-10-06 23:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by Spoiled brat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight,you started dating a guy,after three weeks slept with him,your friends now want details,now you want to break up from him? If i have it right here is my answer,It's none of there business,you should have never told anyone about your Private moments now you look like a person that kisses and tells.Next what happened that you now want to break up after sleeping with him?Now you make yourself look cheap or easy to get into bed.You better work to get your head together before you mess up your own life and blame it on someone else,cause it will be your own fault.Never put yourself in a position that makes you look bad to others or yourself for that matter.Think before climbing into someone Else's bed.
2006-10-06 23:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem pretty messed up
for me why would i tell them them about my personal issues, why would i describe to others even to my friends how was it, let it be a secret, you dont have to tell them anything, you dont have to lie, you dont have to talk about that there are thousands of topics. go and have your private moments just inside your mind, they dont have the right to here that whether they are your friends,
well your experience with your boyfriend was described by you as "it sucks" so youre not happy and youre not contented, sex is a very important part in a relationship. tell it to him that you dont feel you really connected, ask him what he felt about what you did, tell him you think you are not really working out and you both deserve a chance to be happy, he deserves to be happy so let him know you and him are not really progressing on this level, set him free and let yourself free, no point in staying in a relationship just because of guilt or that something happened between you, find and do what makes you happy the most
2006-10-06 22:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lie now and it will come back to bite you in the *** later. Just because your friends want to know doesnt mean you have to tell them. Sex is private. If you want to break up w/ your bf then break up.
2006-10-06 22:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could say ...I had a nice time or it was ok we just hung out ..either way you wouldn't be lieing now if they pinpoint you and say did you have sex then you could say Why do you ask ??Or that;s none of your business ..
If it is not working out what will you do ?? Wait until it works out or talk to him and tell him how you feel .Either way be honest .
2006-10-06 23:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by southernn_sky_2020 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 2 aren't connected. Break up if it's not right.
As far as your friends go - just smile and tell them there is nothing to tell, but keep smiling and they will wonder.
2006-10-06 22:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youre certain it aint workin than ditch the guy.so what about what happened in the past, whoever said that life was meant to be perfect.move on sista.dont care what people say its your life and youre the one living it!!
2006-10-06 23:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by pepper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, are they reliable friends, if theyre going to go around and tell everybody then yeah, you should lie. and its up to you about the break up, if you dont want to go out with him, then yes, you should,
if your mom/dad asks though, dont lie.....
2006-10-06 23:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by Leesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋