2006-10-06 15:52:11 · 6 answers · asked by sempron_mitch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can't seem to get over him because he's your first. We all go through it. I think it's more the idea of him and the idea of a perfect relationship that comes crashing down and makes our hearts ache so much. It's not the actual guy, just the idea of him. Make sure you buy something for yourself and eat some icecream if you haven't already. It's just what we do. You'll move on in time. Until then, feel free to cry at every sad song that comes on the radio. You've earned it. :)
2006-10-06 15:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by elizabeth_ashley44 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the length of time you were dating your ex, you could be thinking about him for a while. I just ended a two year relationship two months ago, and I think about her everyday. If you get to know someone well enough, an attachment develops that is difficult to break off. Give it time and eventually you'll think about him less and less until your memory of him doesn't affect you.
And yes, Elizabeth makes a good point. You're remembering everything that you miss about the relationship and nothing about what made you break up with him. You are, basically, idealizing him.
2006-10-06 22:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by Nelson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply because he was your first boyfriend so therefore your first love! That is a reason you cant forget about him!
2006-10-06 23:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by kristinpaige92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same prob but with my ex gf, she dumped me 2wice. i am trying to forget her but man is it hard sry i dont got an answer just felt like telling u that
2006-10-06 22:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Domino Teryaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still got leftover feelings,date him again,i'm back with my girlfriend after 40 breakups,seriously!,Stronger than ever now.
2006-10-06 22:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by Ramon O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never forget your first bf.
2006-10-06 22:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋