Why are black men good enough to date, but black women arent? Just noticed that a lot of white men say that it's wrong to date a black women but have no problem with black men dating white women. What's the difference? Interacial dating is interacial dating. Also, these same men who are so dead set against interacial dating are the first to buy someone from asia to marry. Hypocitical, hunh?
2006-10-06 15:28:59 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
scary g- I have no idea what you just said, except for the part about my attitude.What attitude are you talking about? I'm asking a question about other people's attitudes, not mine. Explain what your answer means, because it makes no sense.
2006-10-06 15:52:05 · update #1
I understand this question completely, and I am damn tired of folks on here saying: " Duh, a black woman with White man is Weird!" So! WTF, A black man whether he is a thug or billionaire extrodinaire looks weird with a white chick hanging on his arm. I dated a white dude who says he can't stands white women at all, because they are skinny, snobby, and think they run the world. (His words, not mine). Again, us Black Women are the true exotic gem, we are a part of the civilization that began life first and we are gorgeous, we are smart, and very intimidating, perhaps thats why White guys are a little scared, and run to Asia.
2006-10-07 12:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree it's very hypocritical, but then again we live in a hypocritical society. Personally, I'm a black female, and I would date a white guy in a heartbeat! However, not all people are this open minded. Society has these strong taboos that can sometimes overshadow our personal lives. I think it has something to do with the history between white people and black people therefore it is more socially acceptable to be with an asian person than a black person.
2006-10-06 16:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Retarded Genius 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Who said it isnt ok for a white dude to date a an ebony princess. Heck yeah it's ok. Now you just got to remember that while a lot of them (white men) want to date sweet molasses they stuck with stigmatism from the pass and afraid of what their white friend will say. I say it's all right and as you can see more and more white boys are moving in that general direction. They just try to start a little slower by trying out the hispanics and asians first. My point is they would like a little coffe in their cream but. slowly does it.
2006-10-06 15:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 9⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has their preferences, but black women can date white guys.
In fact, I live in a very conservative area, and I see it all the time. It's normal, as far as i'm concerned.
Personally, I can't say that I never would. I just haven't found a black woman I'd like to date. But, I currently haven't found a white woman either, so go figure.
2006-10-06 15:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by MattMan 3 · 9⤊ 0⤋
i don't get questions like this.... why is it ok for one but not for the other? who said it was ok for one? who said it wasn't ok for the other?
it's all a matter of opinion. maybe something along the lines of black men think white women are good to be with but white men don't think black women are good to be with? that doesn't make anything ok or not ok it just shows where the general 'significant other' preferances lie.
2006-10-06 15:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by Roger 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no difference. My cousin is a white male married to a black woman and they couldn't be more perfectly matched. People who are so judgmental should just be put on an island somewhere so they can sit around and judge eachother.
2006-10-06 15:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by HSK's mama 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It is OK for a black woman to date a white man; black women are still women. I think of members of interracial couples as people with open minds; they realize that although they belong to distinct ethnic groups, God acknowledges them both as human beings.
2006-10-06 15:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by Big Dawg 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
All people were created by God equally. Black woman can of course date a white or others.
In the Beginning God created heavens and earth.
God gives you air to breathe and sunshine to enjoy.
God gives you water to drink and food to eat.
God gives you a wonderful body and sound mind, to live.
God loves you, and you are precious to Him.
Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation.
Jesus’ love is boundless and everlasting.
We have the hope of Heaven through Jesus.
Life therefore has fantastic and glorious future!
(Digestion of above can even prevent depression and suicide attempt.)
2006-10-06 15:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by tmthyh 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
uhm, maybe that's your view on it, but i'm pretty sure is just as bad on both sides. they will get all freaked out by the interacial dating thing anyway. (sad isn't it =(
2006-10-06 15:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by ipodlady231 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can date whoever makes you happy.
I am against white females dating black though because they usually get treated like crap and
lose whatever confidence they would have had.
Like the saying goes once you go you can't come back because no one in their right mind wants them.
I've always liked confident females that don't have any problem speaking their minds, I also like intelligent females that I can have a decent conversation with.
2006-10-06 15:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by Sean 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋