2006-10-06 15:17:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know it will be hard, but the best way to help her is to answer any questions she may have truthfully. Don't hide death from her otherwise she may not be able to understand what is going on later in life. She will have a lot of questions. Also you may want her to put together a private memorial, just your family and her, where she can remember good times she had with her friends. Have her draw a picture or help her write a poem, just dont let her feel alone or confused.
2006-10-06 15:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by liz m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand this and your 6 year old cries alot because her 3 little friends died in a house fire, please get her some kind of counseling. She probably needs help to talk about her feelings and work through it all.
2006-10-06 15:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her her 3 little pals are traveling a advantageous place and sometime she would be able to get to fulfill them lower back enable her pals did die in a house fire yet now they're in peace and searching down at her and that they does no longer opt to make sure her cry they might opt to make sure her happy and remember each and all of the sturdy situations that they did have mutually playing and giggling i wish this helps you i is conscious its a no longer elementary element to attempt to tell a youthful youngster .sturdy success and my prayers are with you and your 6 12 months previous.
2016-12-08 09:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just explain to her that everyone dies at sometime, some die younger than others. Also tell her about what a beautiful place that heaven is and how happy her friends are. Make sure she knows that her friends are looking down on her.
2006-10-06 15:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-06 15:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really hard and I'm sorry for her loss. Most children know about god and angels. Tell her that her friends are with god now and the angels are watching over them. Take her to church to light candles for them and say a prayer.
2006-10-06 15:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy with your children. They're people too, and they deserve to know the truth.
Besides, she's facing the situation already. There's no logical sense in pretending it didn't happen. She knows her friends arn't around anymore, and her trust in you is on the line.
2006-10-06 15:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that death is just the beginning, and that her friends are in a better place and that they have a spot in heaven. I'm not religious but that doesn't mean its not real.
2006-10-06 15:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your baby needs to go to a professional therapist asap..
As for you have her talk talk talk the more she can express her feelings the better she is.. I am so sorry to hear of this tragedy my prayers are with you... good luck...
2006-10-06 15:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by sissybombay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her when something bad happens to something that makes that person stop that person will go away forever but u will always remember
2006-10-06 15:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋