ok...ummm....there is a guy that I met last week in my class and he talked to me suddenly about his gf (they broke u that day) and he wanted my opinion as someone who doesn't know him and his gf...when he told me about everything...it seemed to me that his gf was an innocent and I told him to get back to her...and he did! we are sooooo close now, he even told me that he owes me so much for this...but since we're so close...i kinda have acrush on him...i dont want to cuz we're studying together all week...i'm not that kinda person who tries to steal anyone's bf...but who do u think?what should i do? i dont wanna tell him cuz he's a great guy...and i dont him to leave me for this...but i'm confused..it's not a good feeling though
2006-10-06 14:58:26 · 8 answers · asked by /\/ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Seems like the two of you have a pretty strong friendship forming right now. You don't want to do anything to screw that up...so develop the friendship for now and if you are meant to be together in the future, you will be...remember that friendship is the foundation for everything beyond...
2006-10-06 15:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your in a bit of a fix. First of all if I was in your shoes I would stay his friend and sit and wait for your chance. Don't tell him you like him because that will make him feel funny around you. My best friend of 15 years told me a couple of months ago that he has been in love with me since the first time him and I met. That kinda weirded me out. I don't talk to him as much as I did before because I always think about him liking me for more then a friend now. I am involved with someone and have been for many years and he knows that. I have never thought of him as more then a friend. So be safe and play your cards right and if it was meant to be, it will happen. Good Luck!!!!
2006-10-06 15:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by Redneck Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
behave yourself and leave him alone, sounds like it was a good line to get you close and in line for the next squeeze if this one he is working on falls apart. Not a great guy to have who sets one up before the first one falls.
2006-10-06 15:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I've been in the same sit. But chyea don't say n e thing. But just be kewl with him. Be your self. But if they do break up wait a lil while and then just tell em ya know. hope this helped!!
2006-10-06 15:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by ♥£eah♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait n watch.... Being frnds with him is more important.... he's seeing this chick now, so dont get in the way.... things mite happen if u guys are frnds in the future and if he is single..
2006-10-06 15:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him enjoy his girl friend. Maybe you can be his friend, but find your own guy. That way, the relationship will be above-board, and you'll feel better about it in the long run.
2006-10-06 15:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by Dogality 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m in the same situation. my best guy friend is going out w/my friend. i have loved him so much for like....1000 years!!! i told him and he is ok w/it. we are still close, but it is weird when i see him
2006-10-06 15:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by chocolate tea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him. move on. he's back with his girlfriend is off limits unless something happens.
2006-10-06 15:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by Aubrey's mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋