why do guys act all big and bad to you when their with their firends.. but behind close doors their all lovey dubby??
2006-10-06 14:49:23 · 12 answers · asked by i_will_be_famous_1_day 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because other guys expcet a guy to act all tough. Don't worry it's not just human beings, even in the animal kingdom things work that way. Men are constantly battling for dominance when they are in a group, someone is always trying to be the biggest, baddest and meanest. Once they are alone with you though the smart man knows that a girl doesn't really want that same behavior. Instinctively the man does not see the female as a threat to his alpha status so he behaves in a manner he thinks she wants him to, or his natural behavior... neither of which are generally as testosterone based as his behavior around other guys.
2006-10-06 14:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Hicque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys need to hide that side because they're insecure about it. If they act that way in front of their friends, they leave themselves exposed.
2006-10-06 14:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by fury_bassman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they feel like they have to be tough in front of their buds cuz thats the way guys are and most likely always going to be. you got to understand that i have to cause thats what my brothers told me.
2006-10-06 14:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by inez s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know im still as mean or lovable as i am behind closed doors as when im with my friends.......i dont like it when people try to show off be your true self
2006-10-06 14:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by bigboss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are afraid of being made fun of.
if hes a real man, he'd show u off to the world!!!
2006-10-06 14:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by azndiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There jerks, and care more about what there friends think than there girlfriends feelings. That is why.
2006-10-06 14:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause they are sissy's if day act like dat the real guy doesn't do dat
2006-10-06 14:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a guy thing
2006-10-06 14:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz they r afraid there friends will make fun of them
2006-10-06 14:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by mcflydhdt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they can't get nooky with them around. they're just kissing butt to you when you are alone. that's how i see it, but i'm kinda jaded.
2006-10-06 14:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by laurie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋