Have you ever wished your father (or mother) would just die, so you could get on with the rest of your life?

Question

The only thing he does is eat, sleep and sh*t. Shouldn't there be more to life than this? Sorry for asking another tough but honest question.

Everyone is assuming I'm a kid...I'm 53. I've never been close to my parents, I don't think they ever gave me anything but money. No real love, no hugs or anything that would endear me to them. So don't judge me without walking in my footsteps...

Answer 1

Ok, well this is comming from someone with an awful mother. She was NEVER around in my childhood (her choice) she came to visit once because my church paid for it and promised me ( 10 yr old ) that she would call and write. She never did. I felt like she didn't love me. When I was very young and lived with her ( about 4 ) she would abuse me and my siblings, leave us alone and let men touch me.
When I turned 18 I went across the country to meet her. Thinking there had just been some mistake....dont' ask I was stupid lol. Well, no there was no mistake. She was/is still an alcoholic, pillhead, abusive, manipulative, lying, cheating, hateful person and mother.
She took my 2 neices 1 yr and 2 yrs to a wedding and got drunk and choked the 1 yr old, Analysia. She lost them to the state and now they have been adopted out and I haven't seen them in over 2 yrs.
She has been very selfish with me, manipulative, and all the other things I stated above, as well as using me and telling me how to raise my kids and telling others I am a bad mother. Which I am not. She has put my kids in danger, and scared them comming to my home drunk and screaming and banging on my door, which I would not open.
So to answer your question, yes, I have felt that way. But Biblically I shouldn't, so I have just shut her out of my life. I won't allow her to hurt me or my family anymore.

Answer 2

Yes Honest
But Really Tough
But eating , sleeping and sh.t and work everyliving human do
But Money matter
if ur parents would have lot of money
then they can survive without u even.

Answer 3

my father and mother are both dead.dad died when i was 10 yrs. old. mother died way to soon. you should be careful what you wish for....you just might get it. then you could have the rest of your life to be alone, with no family. quit being a brat and count your blessings. you'll grow up soon enough.

Answer 4

Sometimes but I would never attempt it because I don't want to go to jail and make things worse off than they are now

Answer 5

I havent no, I'm lucky to still have my mom around but lost my father over 19yrs ago. Something bad must have happened to make you feel that way or maybe your just to young yet to truly appreciate.

Answer 6

Your avatar and your question tell me that you are a very immature 53 y/o.

Disown your parents, them they won't have to die for you to be happy, you selfish f**k.

Answer 7

That is the meanest thing to say, you should be ashamed of your self, when you parents are finally gone, you will regret wishing this! Take it back now.

Answer 8

If his life is so disgusting to you, what are you doing spending so much time worrying about it? Can't you get on with life independent of what s/he does? Get a real life.

Answer 9

yeah i did. i hated him. even when he admitted he didn't love my mother he wouldn't let us go. even when we left he came around and expected his dinner each day.when i was 15 he said i was no good and should join the army. (i didn't i joined uni)
he came and went as he pleased. since that time hes changed alot. but still disgusts me at times

Answer 10

i don't sense that way, yet I extremely have comparable emotions...My husband has 2 sons (10 and 13) together with his ex-spouse. He had to have a paternity attempt to show his older son became extremely his by way of fact the mummy wasn't useful. properly, he ended up marrying the girl, they had yet another newborn and then divorced. I additionally had a newborn with yet another guy who I left by way of fact he became abusive and he hasn't seen his daughter in 3 a million/2 years. We at present have finished custody of my husbands youthful son, and we plan on getting custody of his older son as quickly as we've a bigger domicile to stay in (genuine now we are residing in a 2 mattress room condominium). properly, the different day, my husband and that i've got been twiddling with my 7 month previous son after the older childrens have been in mattress. I asked him, "do not you like we began out this form?" He became puzzled by using my statements so I stated, "do not you like we began with one yet another and have been given to do each and every thing from the begninning with one newborn at a time as a replace of having childrens with human beings and having to bypass for the time of the "step-confirm" roles?" properly, i assume he did not sense a similar way by way of fact he gave me this appear like I ought to be embarrassed approximately myself. extremely, i'm unable to think of my daughter any different way than how she is...which of direction means she could choose her dad's genes. yet I do choose i ought to have made a extra perfect selection in a father for her to initiate out with so she would not ought to bypass for the time of the heartbreak of understanding her organic and organic dad would not love her adequate to do what's excellent for her. yet she does have a great step-father who's extremely a actual father to her in each and every way.