I let her know that I've loved her for so long and she told me she was touched but she was married to this great guy she explained, we havent spoken since. should I break the silence or should I continue to wait. I still love her but if she is happy I want her to knw that i still value her friendship.
2006-10-06 14:23:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell her your glad she found someone that is good for her,and that you value your friendship.
2006-10-06 14:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by holliela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were out of line spouting off your feelings while she is happily involved with someone else. Take some time and let her contact you. Maybe let a few weeks pass and then forward her a joke e-mail along with a group of friends that you are sending the same mail to...be sure it is one that she will respond to or one of those friendship chain things that she'll have to send back to you. When she sends it in return you will have started your FRIENDSHIP. NOW DON'T bring up your feelings again until she is no longer married to someone else.
2006-10-06 21:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be she is more interesterd in the other guy so she married her. If she would have had an interest on you she would have come to you or contacted you.
Just think that it was a sweetest dream.
Awake and move forward and see new things about careers upliftment etc. No use proving her anything as it would be futile and it will create unwanted doubts to her husband.
2006-10-06 23:19:59 · answer #3 · answered by Venkatesh V S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks man. i know how u feel.
look, there's not much u can do now. she's into the other guy.
but i've always wondered.....u ever heard of the japanese trend, where they hire actual people to seduce other people's spouses, to that they'll break up? they have companies that do that. now, i know it sounds evil.
but think about it like this.
if the guy was so great, any woman that came on to him, he'd be able to resist her right? but most guys wouldn't be able to.
now, if u truly loved her, and u would do anything. and i mean anything to win her. you'd do this.
its pretty simple and im sure its been done before. probably never told. but done.
u hire an attractive girl. college age. she is to seduce him. make sure u have photo evidence,. then mail it to the woman u love, make sure it's anonymous.
then months later, pop back into her life.
i guaran-freaking-tee it man. she'll want u back in her life!
gimme 10 points please? please?
u gotta admit. its a great idea.
2006-10-06 21:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait for what??? You let her know how you felt, she let you know she is married to a great guy... (translation: NOT INTERESTED) If you push this, you WILL loose the friendship. Keep it light, with no expectations of something that isn't going to happen...
2006-10-06 21:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tried, if she wanted you she would have told you. I think her silence means stay away for now, she should be the one to break the silence.
2006-10-06 21:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by Michael R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it off let the girl and her husband have a chance with there marriage,with you around it could cause problems for them.
2006-10-06 21:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is do you like pain? you are only hurting your self and emotions. You will see that she only having her cake and eating it to
2006-10-06 21:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by biscuit181 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait because she's married
2006-10-06 21:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by Frederick B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that way you need to let her know. I am sure she feels the same way but you won't know untill you both talk.
2006-10-06 22:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋