Okay, theres this guy that I know, I dont know him too well, and I dont see him much, but I crushed on him for the longest time. Recently, I accidently stumbled across a secret blog of his where he admitted he was gay. I just feel kinda odd, I don't want this to change my opinion of him, but I feel very strange and sorta heartbroken that I'll never get to be with him or anything. Don't know the next time I'll see him, but I want to be able not be ashamed around him because I know his secret, and yes, it is a secret, cause hes told hardly anyone. What should I do, and how do I come to accept this?
2006-10-06 14:18:21 · 9 answers · asked by Aimee 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
How did you get into his secret blog? I mean, he must not want it to be a secret if he's posting it out there for everyone to see if they really looked hard enough.
As for you....sadly, let it go. Like when a boy rejects your offer to date....it's over and not gonna happen. But he'd make a great friend!
As for how to act around him - he's the same person!!!! Doesn't matter if he's gay or not, be a friend.
2006-10-06 14:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by Miz_Kassandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way to accept it is to simply accept it. He is probably trying to come out, that is more then likely the reason that it on a blog that anyone can access. You may want to let him know that you read his blog and you found it very enlightening. Just be his friend, let him know you will be his friend.
You will probably not have the relationship that you want with him. realize though that even if he was straight that you might not have a chance either! Peoples tastes in partners don't stop at what their sexuality is.
You can still have a very fulfilling and healthy friendship. I am sure he can use one in which he can confide in during this time in his life.
2006-10-06 14:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by aiji.tenchijin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have accepted it as a fact- you just don't like the knowledge.... Be there for him, and if you really love him you will be happy for him, let him know you care and knowing this and still caring will only make you closer- Girlfriends and boyfriends come and go but TRUE friends are there for you through them all!
2006-10-06 14:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by admiredi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you really had a deep feeling for this guy, and I bet you still like him. So I think you shouldn't let go. You should never change your feelings about someone for a stupid excuse like he's gay.~~~!!!! YOu should tyr to find out why he says he is gay.
2006-10-06 14:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god says not to be acepting of what he says is wrong, we all know it says sleeping with the same sex is wrong , i think your friend knows this too and that is y he is hiding it, he is ashamed of his sin , the lord says it is an abomination , it is a perversion and he need to repent and turn away from that lifestyle,teach him what u know and help lead the way for him, good luck and god bless
2006-10-06 14:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come it is a secret when you are telling us?
2006-10-06 14:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'd bake a great sister. hehehe
but yeah, if he didnt want the others to now his secret, why's he posting it for everyone to see? i meant her sercret ;)
2006-10-06 14:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by lnfrared Loaf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is let it go.
2006-10-06 14:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by Serious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a strapon.
2006-10-06 14:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by exert-7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋