i need ur help again!!!!?

Question

ok, so u guys are right in some ways, but it was just the way they say things to me, they want me to do shyt for them, but they cant do anything for me.....i was just saying. they want me to meet guys, but they dontwant me to get to kno them .......they want me to go out and have fun, but they send me through so much just to go out....i understand that im under their roof and have to abide by their rules, but nothing has happened to my nieces at all....i kno.....they're a littlle off, lol, but i still luv them, they just havent been exposed to ppl, and i think thats unfair to me to have to suffer for sumthing that they choose to do with their kids.....its not like there is a couch and sum chairs in the garage......IT'S PLAIN CEMENT AND COMPLETE EMPTINESS!!!!....now wut?

Answer 1

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but trust me, when you have your own family, and your own house, you will understand EXACTLY where your brother and sister-in-law are coming from. When I was your age, I wouldn't have been able to appreciate it much, but I certainly do now. It's not good to expose the kids to whatever guys you might bring there, considering that their parents have NO idea what they might be like. It's up to them to decide how the children will be exposed to people as they grow up, and you need to trust their judgment about this, because it's THEIR children.

As for giving you a lot of gried just to go out, it may be because you've only moved there recently, and need to earn their trust. If it doesn't improve, then you need to talk to them about it, but in the meantime, for heaven's sake don't give them any ammo by giving them reason to be concerned about what might happen when you go out! Show that you're responsible and things should improve. If not, then you need to talk it out with them until they do. In the meantime, you've got to start taking steps toward living on your own. That's the only real solution to all this.