i mean, guys complaint about their wifes being cold, but some guys are like that too.why guys that have burning hot wifes just dont take their roll as fire fighters.instead they leave the fire burning and when someone step up to put it out.thats when they decide they wanna do the job.so whats up with that?
2006-10-06 13:57:42 · 11 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
men do not know how to read between the lines. they are not very intuative AT ALL. it sux, but if you expect anything from a man, you have to TELL him. unfortunately, none of them have the ability (as we do) to read minds.
sorry
2006-10-06 14:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What some men don't realize is, if they take the time to find out what their partner wants/needs/enjoys, it will be an enjoyable situation all the way around and sex will be a pleasurable experience and will be looked upon favorably when the topic comes up again.
However there are males (and you notice the omission of the word MEN) that are concerned only whith self gratification ,and to these individuals I say, get a jar, put some liver in it and have fun!
2006-10-06 21:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by theradicalwomen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because......
Your man may have been verbally and emotionally battered by your constant fights (what you call firefighting) that he has given up and has decided to keep his mind together and just keep quiet. Which is what you may call being cold.
One piece of advice, watch the 'build up' inside him, when it fills, the explosion may be too much to handle.
Stop nagging, and shouting down every point he makes and give him some space.
Surely marriages need to be a place of peace and not war! Life is sometimes difficult for men. when they talk, the wives complain they order around too much, want to make all the decisions etc...when they keep quiet, they are cold, unconcerned and arrogant. Life is a bi*ch
2006-10-06 21:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by jackbauer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a country and western song lol. I really don't know why some guys would do that.....I guess for the same reason some women would do the same..
2006-10-06 21:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they need a real woman to teach them
2006-10-06 21:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF are you talking about?
re-ask the question in real world terms ans not some high school terms
make sure you tell both of your ages
level of education etc.. to get a better picture of your plight
2006-10-06 21:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your too hot to handle and too cold to hold.
2006-10-06 21:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little confused....are you saying that it's ok to have multiple sex partners if one doesn't do it for you.....and if that's not it, mostly its all about competition.....
2006-10-06 21:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz men are just men.. things have to be on THEIR time , by THEIR rules, according to THEIR plans... either that or booooo, no action!
hell, in everything not just in bed I suppose!
2006-10-06 21:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by Whatever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why be a firefighter, be a firestarter!!!1
2006-10-06 21:49:58 · answer #10 · answered by reeltimesniffer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋