my girlfriend wanted to talk to me today. We talked. She said she thinks that I don't care about her or love her and that we are over. I told her that I love her but she said I love you but I know you don't love me. I don't know what to do. I really do love her. I don't know what to do to show her I love her.
what should I do to show that I do love her because I do not want to lose her.
2006-10-06 13:29:09 · 5 answers · asked by TOM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we are both in 11th grade. we have been togther for 2 years. We have been best friends our whole lives.
2006-10-06 14:26:16 · update #1
Im sure that she loves to hear you say that you lover her and care for here. There is a catch to this, we ladies like to hear it and see it. Most girls are materialistic. Give her flowers every now and then. Don't wait for Valtentines or a special occassion. It's doent have to be fancy. Pick them if you have to. Take here to a special palce, stick up for her, hug her now and them, tell her she's beautiful. Little things go a long way.....good luck!
2006-10-06 13:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by bttf_85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off how long have u 2 been together. Every woman doubts her man from time to time maybe u could bring her flowers for no reason and surprise her with something u know she has been wanting to do. Maybe that might work.
2006-10-06 20:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by angela_lunsford30655 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out a way to PROVE how much you love her. Write her a poem or a song, but don't buy her anything. Something from the heart is always better.
2006-10-06 21:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by MiDnIgHt FiStFiGhT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I tell a boyfriend that "I love him but he doesn't love me" Im totally calling out for more of his time, attention, and maybe some cute romantic gestures from time to time.. she probably feels abandoned somehow, or kinda ignored?
step 1: you shud definitely tell her again - that u love her.
step 2: wait a few days & try to surprize her with sumthin that took EFFORT to plan - not money, TIME, EFFORT.. like I dunno, plan for a nice dinner at home when she thinks you'll go out with ur buddies... or pick her up from work & take her to the place u first met.. or drop by without notice with a pice of chocolate that u ate from & say "I wanted to share the rest of it with you".. you know? somehing CUTE and THOUGHTFUL.
step 3: try not to go for weeks without doing something that simple & nice, or saying "I love you" sincerely.
I hope u don't lose her, if u really love her.
good luck buddy!
2006-10-06 20:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Whatever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same situation, to make it better with her, tell her how you really feel and be sincere in your expression, and show her by actions. remember actions speak louder than words.
2006-10-06 20:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by finallyamommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋