ok look i dont sleep thinking about this, a guy 2 years ago hade a sexy video of me and he lives in another country he said hes gonna put it on the internet and am not sure what he did , so far havent heard anything about it ,and its one of my fears that anyone would know ..
i cant face him and ask him i told him am going to sucide that night and then never saw him ..
i wonder what to do
2006-10-06 13:26:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Wow, Well, first of all do not make anymore videos, and if he does post it so what, that is not the worst thing that could happen to you. very sad, however, things could be worse. What a looser he is. I would call him and ask him. You made a mistake obviously, just leave it alone, don't allow it to control your life, all of us if we live long enough will make some choices we regret. Good luck and God bless.
2006-10-10 03:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't commit suicide over this!! Honestly, people can change alot in 2 years. I'm sure you don't look the same as you did 2 years ago, so IF and that's a big IF that should ever make it onto the big computer screen...just deny it's you. Hey, he could be married or in a relationship by now, and may not want his significant other to see it either. Don't stress...
2006-10-06 21:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry. As many videos as there are out on the net, one is likely never going to be found by someone you know, moreover, its likely never going to happen, why would he post it on the net? No benefit to him, unless you are famous or extremely attractive. Most reputable companies would refuse a video that had no credits anyways.
You may want to see a councilor about anxiety though, sounds like an issue.
2006-10-06 20:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by kljj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop dwelling on it. If it is on the internet who is going to know it was you? And if someone does see it that you know (assuming that is on the internet at this time) who cares they obviously havent told you and you obviously dont want to tell them. Dont off yourself because of something stupid that YOU did. As far as you know that movie is not on the internet and you obviously havent commited suicide over it so I'm thinking that you should get over it. 2 years is a long time to dwell.
2006-10-06 20:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long is enough to to worry for something that you can't help??? maybe the video has been on the Internet for ever and you don' even know, go on with your life and if one day it shows up you deal with it. I guess you are the only girl that is showing having sex on the Internet, get over it!!
2006-10-07 18:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by class4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...if he has any heart he wont post it.....but u know guys,,,if he does take it on the chin,pretend to be proud of it if anyone sees,,,,and remember the chances of your parents friends or family seeing are slim,,,especially if hes in a different country
2006-10-06 20:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Neville W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he did post a sexy video of you on the internet, you could try to do a search for your name. might help
2006-10-06 20:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by gets flamed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will go nuts girl, if you don't stop worrying. Move on. You can always say that you are a changed person now... and that you learned from you mistakes.
2006-10-07 04:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somethings we can not control, that being being someone's thoughts or actions , let it go what will b will b
2006-10-06 20:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by chaun_blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋