okay wellone of my friends(we have been friends since we were like 5...were 14 now)well she has been in an offanage from like age 11 to 13(long story) and there is a couple that are her foster parents right now but are trying to get her for good(adopt)we live in Cali.and she was wondering what she good call them...they are 2 men...and she said she asked them and they said they didn't care but she can't think of two things that won't get confused with each other...so do u kno of any names.....?
2006-10-06 13:16:17 · 14 answers · asked by Jazzi_Pha 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Friends of mine who adopted three kids, have the kids call them Dad and Papa or Poppa. Just one idea.
2006-10-06 16:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by ladyfraser04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be easy to simply call them by their names. I know it is a little unconventional, but so is the whole situation. If she is worried about what people will think.....well, some will be excepting of the situation, and some will not, no matter what she calls them.
People should consider that whether they agree with the lifestyle of these two men, or not, they are two people doing a very selfless thing by taking in a child not their own and offering her love and security. Not many people are so willing to open their homes and hearts. This speaks volumes about character.
2006-10-06 13:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Shaken Not Stirred 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, that's great! I hope they are really good for her and visa versa. Way back when I was 14, I'd have stuck with their names until something just happened to develop into a couple of parent type names - ya know, whatever came naturally based on personality and experience. As far as referring to them for the rest of the world, lots of stuff works - parents, dads, fathers, etc.
2006-10-06 14:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by Alex62 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about Dad and Pops? Father and Old man? Papa and Dada? Or she could just call them by their names with one of the above titles in front.
2006-10-06 13:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by indrep33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg. How previous are u 5? geeze there is an hassle-free answer on your so referred to as "difficulty" and this is do no longer tell your chum. why does she could comprehend? if she keeps bothering u approximately it then basically misinform her and tell her u like somebody else or that your a lesbian and that u like her. that could desire to maintain her away hahaha j/ok. i wish i replaced into of any help. good success!
2016-10-18 22:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by itani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are they gay if they are is one feminine if so cal one ma or use there first names or dad and daddy or use the first letter of there names like daddy A OR DADDYb you know you can always figure something out
2006-10-06 13:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by DIrtycircus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if anybody asks what they are to her she should just say that those are her dads and to call them by their names until she feels comfortably calling them by one name they agree on
2006-10-06 13:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by kiwiz101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think that the more maculent one would be dad and the more fem one daddy....evan if they are both veary maculent then the lesser of the 2 can me daddy.
2006-10-06 13:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by brandy t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When two men adopt a child, they need to change their names to Karl and Victor. They can decide among themselves who will be Karl and who will be Victor.
2006-10-06 13:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i agree with ---mommyk232----
anyway maybe you could just let her choose on her own when it comes to her she'll know wether its right or wrong to her...i chose what to call my grandmother and grandfather without anyone telling me what to call them it just came naturally...so maybe the same will work for her
2006-10-06 13:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋